being a certified hater is keeping you poor

being a certified hater is keeping you poor Want to support the channel + get exclusive videos - https://www.joinearlyexit.com Send me your stories or questions! Here is the email, anything I read will be completely anonymous: [email protected] a like minded community on Discord:   / discord   want to listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4QpD8mg... follow me on x: https://x.com/earlyexitplanyt I've never seen a certified hater actually win at life. Not building something they're proud of, not in a relationship they're happy in, not making real money. And I don't think that's a coincidence. Hating isn't a personality quirk — it's a symptom of being stuck and refusing to admit it. In this video, I break down why the hater mindset is actually expensive: how it quietly costs you in your career, your finances, your relationships, and every measurable way possible. I get honest about the times I caught myself doing it — checking creator subscriber counts instead of writing scripts, resenting a coworker's raise, obsessing over a housing lottery I didn't win — and the exact reframe I use to turn that feeling into fuel instead. my newsletter - https://earlyexitplan.beehiiv.com/ 🔖 CHAPTERS 🔖 0:00 – Why I've Never Seen a Hater Actually Win 0:56 – The Fixed Pie Mentality Explained 3:31 – The Real Difference Between Feedback and Hating 7:20 – When Hate Shows Up in Real Life: The $26 Raise 9:23 – The NYC Housing Lottery & Handling the Sting 11:08 – Stop Keeping Someone Else's Scoreboard 13:33 – Why the Hater Mindset Is Keeping You Broke 16:17 – Turn That Feeling Into a Signal Instead 🧔🏻‍♂️ about me: I am a 20-something year software engineer living in NYC. In my videos you will find me sharing my journey on how I plan on retiring early (hence the name EarlyExit), my thoughts on the current system, dating advice, and any other topics I believe that are worth sharing. sub count: 49,086