말이 많을수록 사람이 떠나는 진짜 이유 | 관계심리 | 인간관계 | 자기노출

My words can sometimes be poison, and other times medicine. If you have ever been hurt or alienated by the words you poured out, pay attention! This book contains the secrets of words that attract people, like the "Quiet Woman," as well as psychological insights on how to regulate "how much" to open up to others—in other words, self-disclosure. 📌 References · Tamir & Mitchell (2012), PNAS — Self-talk activates the brain's reward circuit, and people give up 17% of their rewards for the opportunity to speak. · Loewenstein (1994), Information Gap Theory — The less information you provide, the higher your curiosity and trust become. · Harvard Study of Adult Development (R. Waldinger) — "Relationship quality" determines happiness. #PsychologyOfRelationships #CommunicationSkills #PowerOfWords #SelfDisclosure #InterpersonalRelationships #RelationshipImprovement #Psychoanalysis #SecretsOfCommunication