ВОЗВРАТ К БЫВШИМ // Второй шанс или те же грабли?

Artem Karpavichus is a practicing psychologist, a Master's degree holder (Department of Psychotherapy and Psychological Counseling), and an author. 📖 MY BOOK "It's impossible to leave, but to stay" (AST Publishing House) is available at any bookstore, on WB, and on Litres. https://www.litres.ru/book/artem-karp... 📌 You can get additional content here https://karpavichus.com/rasshirennye-... https://karpavichus.com/rasshirennye-... https://karpavichus.com/rasshirennye-... 📌 You can support my project here https://boosty.to/karpavichus https://boosty.to/karpavichus https://boosty.to/karpavichus "Twice" "You can't step into the same river" – is that really true? If you've ever considered getting back with your ex, this video is for you. Instead of clichés, we'll explore the real psychology behind this move. Why are we so drawn back, even if the relationship was bad? Hi! I'm Artem Karpavichus, and today we're talking about relationship comebacks. I'll explore the five main motivators that push us back into the arms of our exes: from unresolved feelings and "hormonal love" to simple laziness and fear of a new life. You'll understand why getting back together isn't a "fresh start," but merely a replay of the same old story with the same problems. Using real-life stories from my clients, including a shocking and humorous case of infidelity and strawberry lubricant, I'll show you why hoping your partner will change is the biggest trap. In the end, I'll give you 3 practical recommendations that will help you make the right decision and ask yourself the right question: "Am I ready to change to accept what can't be fixed?" 🕒 TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - Why getting back with your ex is the stuff of memes (and MRI commercials). 00:36 - MAIN THING: it's not a fresh start, but a resumption of an old story. 01:10 - 5 MAIN REASONS why we go back to our exes. 01:20 - Reason 1: The feelings haven't gone away (the "hormonal love" effect). 02:37 - Reason 2: Laziness and disappointment in the "relationship market". 03:00 - Reason 3: Overestimating your partner (the story of a client who was looking for a "patriarchal wife"). 06:30 - Reason 4: Habit and the fear of losing not the person, but the life we've become accustomed to. 7:41 - Reason 5: Bad motives (revenge, jealousy, and the desire to ruin an ex's happiness). 10:50 - Why THEY WON'T CHANGE: a metaphor about a car with broken turn signals. 12:05 - TOP RECOMMENDATIONS FROM A PSYCHOLOGIST. 12:14 - Recommendation 1: Ask yourself the right question (and what wisdom has to do with it). 13:41 - Recommendation 2: What to do if you're being pulled back by strong feelings. 14:13 - Recommendation 3: You're breaking up not with a person, but with your entire past life. 15:30 - SHOCK STORY: How a man was caught cheating because of the smell of strawberries. 20:13 - The main conclusion: what you really need to do to avoid making the same mistakes. Thanks for watching! If you found this video helpful, please like and subscribe to the channel. I'd be very grateful if you supported this video with a like. I'd also like to thank my subscribers on Boosty and Patreon – I really appreciate your support. The lecture was produced by: Script, presenter - Artem Karpavichus https://karpavichus.com Editing, color correction, VFX - Pareto Production https://paretoproduction.ru/ (Remember the LIKE? ?? :) #relationshippsychology #getbackwithex #ex #breakup #relationships #artemkarpavichus #toxicrelationships #psychology