Low vs Medium vs High Maintenance | Which One Are You REALLY?

We hear the terms high and low maintenance thrown around all the time. But something I’ve realized is even after discussing it, a lot of women don’t actually know where they personally fall. Because there’s the version of you in your head and then there’s the version of you that shows up in your relationships. There are the standards you preach about when you’re around other women and then there’s what you actually tolerate when you’re feeling lonely or when he’s your exact physical type or when he has some money and he’s not afraid to spend it. And recognizing this isn’t about judging yourself. It’s about being honest with yourself. Because your maintenance level isn’t permanent, we can elevate that easily, but you do have to know where you’re starting from in reality. So now that we’ve talked about the hidden costs of being low maintenance, what it looks like to step into being more medium maintenance…and how to embrace being high maintenance in a healthy way. I thought it might be helpful to go beyond labels and the concepts and talk about real behaviors and examples that show up in life at each level. Like How would you respond to missed birthdays or anniversaries, to lack of effort or initiative. Do you have the courage to speak up or walk away if it’s necessary? I want you to be real with yourself. Not about who you want to be but how you actually show up right now. Because you don’t get treated based on what you say you want you get treated based on what you tolerate. So if you’re ready to make sure your mindset and behavior matches the maintenance level you want…let’s get started!