I Converted to Judaism Twice - 21 Rules to Convert

💙 Want more practical, nuanced guidance about Jewish conversion and building a Jewish life? Join my mailing list for access to my free Resource Library, including the Jewish Conversion Timeline Cheatsheet, printable guides, and more: https://building-a-jewish-life.kit.co... 🏠 Want support beyond YouTube? Bayit Builders is my membership helping people build a Jewish life with guidance, community, and practical support. Learn more: https://buildingajewishlife.com/membe... If you’re thinking about converting to Judaism, there are some things no one tells you - and they matter. Let's discuss the unwritten rules of the conversion process: what actually makes it easier, what makes it harder, and how to build a Jewish life in real life, not just in theory. Contacting a rabbi for the first time:    • How to Contact a Rabbi for Conversion (Wit...   Will your conversion be accepted?    • Will Your Jewish Conversion Be Accepted By...   Can you convert online?    • Can You Really Convert to Judaism Online?   How long does it take to convert?    • How long does it *really* take to convert ...   I want to convert but my partner’s not Jewish:    • I Want to Convert… But My Partner Isn’t Je...   Are rabbis required to reject me?    • Do Rabbis Really Reject Potential Converts...   Red flags in Jewish conversion:    • 7 Red Flags to Watch for in the Jewish Con...   Why you feel like a fraud during your conversion:    • Why You Feel Like a Fraud During Jewish Co...   ————————— ⏱️ Time Stamps ————————— 00:00 Intro 00:47 Number 1 01:22 Number 2 02:01 Number 3 02:34 Number 4 03:04 Number 5 03:33 Number 6 04:23 Number 7 05:27 Number 8 06:08 Number 9 07:15 Number 10 08:42 Number 11 09:22 Number 12 11:21 Number 13 12:23 Number 14 13:12 Number 15 14:11 Number 16 14:56 Number 17 15:22 Number 18 16:06 Number 19 16:51 Number 20 17:22 Number 21 ———————————— 💙 Recommendations ———————————— Find my full recommendation list in the Jewish Life Resource Guide at https://buildingajewishlife.com/resou... 📚 Books Choosing a Jewish Life by Diamant: https://amzn.to/4mc4UrF To Be a Jew by Donin: https://amzn.to/3HxC1a6 How to Run a Traditional Jewish Household by Greenberg: https://amzn.to/4mYbvWP Leaving Bacon Behind by Marsh: https://amzn.to/3UWGNRG Artscroll Torah/Chumash (1st 5 books of the Bible): https://amzn.to/41BHO5p JPS Tanach (full Bible): https://amzn.to/45cXePP Artscroll Tanach (different translation): https://amzn.to/41xjIbW Children’s Torah/Bible book: The Family Torah by MacLeod https://amzn.to/4oyeWVt 📖 Prayerbooks How to choose a Jewish prayer book/siddur/machzor (with links): https://buildingajewishlife.com/2014/... 👗🧣 Clothing Women and girls’ modest clothing, workout gear, and swimwear: Kosher Casual https://amzn.to/4mzNkgT Headscarves: Wrapunzel (IRL friend) https://amzn.to/4osBxD3 🏠 Home Plata for Shabbat and holidays (only one I recommend - made with safety and Jewish observance in mind): TechYidCo. Shabbos Safe Warming Tray https://amzn.to/45u0G7D Appliance timer (use an appliance timer for anything more powerful than a lamp): Sunlite T200 24hr Heavy Duty Appliance Timer https://amzn.to/3UU4I46 Hot water urn (75% of people have this exact one, including me): Hamilton Beach https://amzn.to/47aW3C3 Kosher kitchen labels (still using 15 years later): The Kosher Cook https://amzn.to/410E8dc Crock-pot Slow Cooker: https://amzn.to/47n8WZx Instant Pot (don’t use the crockpot feature for Shabbat/holidays): https://amzn.to/4lysXA4 Kosher Lamp for Shabbat https://amzn.to/3J96n3r Yair Emanuel Judaica https://amzn.to/45uq658 🎥 Biz Gear Camera: Refurbished iPhone 16 https://amzn.to/41Fkofp DJI Mic Mini microphone https://amzn.to/4mEIaQV Weilisi 12'' Ring Light https://amzn.to/411yJ5K EUCOS 62" Phone Tripod https://amzn.to/4lrHAVN Link in bio tool: Stan.Store https://join.stan.store/BetzelemElokim ———————— 👩🏻‍🦰 Who Am I? ———————— Hi, I’m Kochava - a Jewish convert who’s been helping people navigate the conversion process with clarity, compassion, and real-life support since 2010. Whether you're just starting out, stuck somewhere in the messy middle, or figuring out post-mikvah Jewish life, you're in the right place. 🕯 I offer one-on-one coaching, printable guides, and practical resources made especially for conversion candidates and new Jews. You’ll also find years of blog posts full of encouragement, halachic help, and no-BS answers at https://buildingajewishlife.com/ ————————— 🔗 Let’s connect: ————————— Website, Blog, & Mailing List: https://buildingajewishlife.com/ Instagram @BetzelemElokim:   / betzelemelokim   TikTok @BetzelemElokim:   / betzelemelokim   Work with me: https://buildingajewishlife.com/work-...