How to Recognize Weaponized Incompetence (and what you can do about it)
Weaponized Incompetence is a manipulative behaviour used strategically to avoid certain tasks and responsibilities. While it's commonly seen in romantic relationships, there are a number of different dynamics where weaponized incompetence can show up. I start this video by going over the different ways weaponized incompetence can present. I also share the things that may look like weaponized incompetence, but really are not. And finally I give some concrete actions that you can take if weaponized incompetence is being used on you. Different parts of the video are timestamped: 🔍 In this video: 0:00 - Intro 1:11 - What is Weaponized Incompetence? 1:44 - 6 Flavours of Weaponized Incompetence 4:08 - Relationship Dynamics Where Weaponized Incompetence Shows Up 5:48 - Weaponized Incompetence Look-Alikes 10:05 - Steps to Identify Weaponized Incompetence 12:56 - What You Can Do When Faced With Weaponized Incompetence 14:14 - Conclusion There is another insidious, manipulative behaviour that shows up in relationships between people: Gaslighting. Watch the video: 📺🔗    • How to Tell if Someone is Gaslighting You ...  📍 Based in Kelowna? Kelowna EMDR Clinic is looking for awesome therapists to join our team. Every day we work with people to help them: ✅ Manage Anxiety and Stress ✅ Overcome Depression and Mood Challenges ✅ Develop healthy Eating and Body Image ✅ Process Grief and Loss ✅ Handle Health and Chronic Conditions ✅ Navigate Life Transitions ✅ Master Parenting and provide Child/Teen Support ✅ Work through Phobias ✅ Navigate Relationship and Family Challenges ✅ Integrate Self-Esteem, Identity, and Belonging, and ✅ Resolve Trauma and PTSD 🤙Connect with us: Website: https://www.kelownaemdr.ca YouTube: @kelownaemdr Insta:   / kelownaemdr  Ashley Phillips is a Certified EMDR Therapist with over 10 years of experience in clinical counselling. She is the founder of Kelowna EMDR Clinic. Keywords: #emdr #emdrtherapy #kelownaemdrclinic #kelownatherapist #kelowna #traumainformed #traumahealing #traumatherapy #weaponizedincompetence #relationships #relationshipadvice #ashleyphillips #therapist #therapistashleyphillips
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