『要注意』うかつに人に話してはいけないこと7選/後悔につながる会話内容とは?

"Are there any things I shouldn't talk about with people?" You might have trouble with conversations, right? There are some things you can easily screw up talking about. The easiest to understand are things related to money. It will make you jealous. It will spread rumors. It will attract a lot of attention. It almost never brings any positive results. But in many cases, people will talk about it as a way of boasting. We've talked about these specific things. [Kokoreta ⇒ Sign up for free and receive comforting words at least twice a month] We're giving away a limited-edition article on steps to living as a friendly lone wolf. For more details, please see: https://coco-letter.medy.jp/p/6e19aa3... ▼Table of Contents▼ 00:00 Today's Topic 00:38 ① Privacy-related matters 03:26 ② Assets and money-related matters 05:12 ③ Stories of old heroic tales 07:26 ④ Complaints about the community 09:56 ⑤ Criticism of people close to you 12:33 ⑥ Deep conversations despite shallow relationships 14:56 ⑦ Overtalking about things that are going well 16:45 Summary: Important things to remember ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ -- Exclusive videos answering family and couples' concerns, all available to watch + daily words of inspiration YouTube Membership here ▶   / @cocoyowa   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's Books ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼New Book: Amazon "I Decided to Live a Slightly More Earnest Life" (Seishun Publishing) https://amzn.asia/d/07bMpqpY ▼Amazon "I Decided to Stop Being Controlled" https:// amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶See a list of his books here https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ A community for highly sensitive people ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ --Cocoiro Salon ▶https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/3588/ ☆Learn from various experts with HSP traits and interact with fellow participants. First, learn self-esteem improvement exercises, then build relationships with confidence. This is a hybrid community of learning and interaction, perfect for those who have struggled with interpersonal relationships. Various events and weekly radio shows are also held. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About Advice and Lifestyle Information for HSPs ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ☆Learning and Advice Service Primarily for HSPs [HSP Textbook] Over 6,000 subscribers to date. A weekly email newsletter with 20,000-50,000 characters of information on relationships, HSPs, HSS-type HSPs, and HSEs. Various content is available, including exclusive live shows, exclusive radio shows, exclusive videos, and a consultation form. If you'd like to discuss your concerns with Ryota, please use this newsletter. I'll explain each one in detail. *I'm also happy to answer questions unrelated to HSPs, even about work or family relationships. I'll answer as an advisor. --Click here for details and registration: ↓↓ ▶https://cocoyowa.com/mail-magazine/hs... *Winner of the MaguMagu Grand Prize Newcomer Award. *Winner of the MagMag by them Award. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●[Warning] 7 things you should never tell anyone at work / What causes rifts in relationships?    • 【要注意】職場で絶対に人に話さない方がいいこと7選/人間関係に亀裂の入る要因とは?   ●[Advice] 7 reasons why you shouldn't tell people what you really want / What are the dangers of saying it out loud?    • 【忠告】本当にやりたいことを人に話してはいけない理由7選/口に出してしまう危険とは?   ● "Talking to them is exhausting": The psychology of boastful people and three ways to deal with them    • 「話をすると疲れる」自慢ばかりの人の心理と対処法3つ   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog posts you might want to read ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● A blog to help HSPs and sensitive people live better lives https://cocoyowa.com/ ● Summary of HSP diagnostic tests: "Three types: Introverted HSP, HSS, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ● Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ● The ultimate solo technique. When you're struggling with relationships, try living like a "friendly lone wolf." A counselor shares the secret to avoiding making enemies. https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's Social Media Accounts ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● Instagram   / ryo_shigoto   ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering Letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle/Long-Laid-Back Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief Profile ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. Studied healing music, hearing, psychology, gender studies, etc. during college (Bachelor of Arts). A severe HSP himself, he has changed jobs five times and experienced relationship difficulties. He holds multiple titles, including mental health counselor, behavioral psychologist, composer, and lecturer. He is a father of two children. Runs "The HSP Textbook," a consultation service and lifestyle guide for HSPs. Has published books with four companies, including KADOKAWA and SB Creative. Runs "Cocoiro Salon," a community for HSPs...

【人を意識しない力】他人に反応しない関わり方のヒント7選
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【人を意識しない力】他人に反応しない関わり方のヒント7選

【1人はいる】あなたにだけ悪意を向ける人の心理と対処法3選/実はあなたを苦手とする人たち
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【1人はいる】あなたにだけ悪意を向ける人の心理と対処法3選/実はあなたを苦手とする人たち

定年後、毎日3食を要求し続けた67歳夫。45年我慢した妻がある日突然、台所に立つのをやめた結果…|熟年離婚
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定年後、毎日3食を要求し続けた67歳夫。45年我慢した妻がある日突然、台所に立つのをやめた結果…|熟年離婚

【大切】人に嫌われない、敵を作らない7つの方法/ついやりがちな行動とは?
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【大切】人に嫌われない、敵を作らない7つの方法/ついやりがちな行動とは?

舐められる人が無意識に出している弱く見えるサイン
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舐められる人が無意識に出している弱く見えるサイン

[Specific example] What are the deciding factors for giving up on someone/What are the signs that...
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[Specific example] What are the deciding factors for giving up on someone/What are the signs that...

休んでも治らない“うつ病”の本当の原因はトラウマです|改善法を心理学的に解説
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休んでも治らない“うつ病”の本当の原因はトラウマです|改善法を心理学的に解説

【緊急】2人の未来人が最後に残した●●…2026年、日本に迫る未来がヤバすぎた【都市伝説】
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【緊急】2人の未来人が最後に残した●●…2026年、日本に迫る未来がヤバすぎた【都市伝説】

【美輪明宏】〇〇が特徴の人は守護霊が強く守ってくれてるわよ…ご加護を受けている人の絶対的なサイン選。|偉人|名言|言葉の力|人生哲学|
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【美輪明宏】〇〇が特徴の人は守護霊が強く守ってくれてるわよ…ご加護を受けている人の絶対的なサイン選。|偉人|名言|言葉の力|人生哲学|

【70歳女性】年齢を重ね変化していく友達関係。老後の人生に友人は必要ない本音を伝え、友達との絶縁を決めました。【シニアライフ】【60代以上の方へ】
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【70歳女性】年齢を重ね変化していく友達関係。老後の人生に友人は必要ない本音を伝え、友達との絶縁を決めました。【シニアライフ】【60代以上の方へ】

『うかつに話すな!』私生活を他人に教えてはいけない7つの理由/安全な生活を自分で守ろう
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『うかつに話すな!』私生活を他人に教えてはいけない7つの理由/安全な生活を自分で守ろう

[The End of a Relationship] Your Heart is Rejecting Them! 7 Signs Your Mind is Telling You to Kee...
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[The End of a Relationship] Your Heart is Rejecting Them! 7 Signs Your Mind is Telling You to Kee...

[Caution] 5 things you should never tell anyone [Trivia about human relationships]
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[Caution] 5 things you should never tell anyone [Trivia about human relationships]

【樹木希林】子供에「5つの嘘」をつきなさい。一生大切にされる親の秘訣|会いたくなる親になる最高の方法
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【樹木希林】子供에「5つの嘘」をつきなさい。一生大切にされる親の秘訣|会いたくなる親になる最高の方法

【取り返しがつかない】賢い人が気軽に人にバラさない4つのこと【心理学】
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【取り返しがつかない】賢い人が気軽に人にバラさない4つのこと【心理学】

[Must see] 7 ways to deal with people who are in a bad mood and have a low mental age, or who are...
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[Must see] 7 ways to deal with people who are in a bad mood and have a low mental age, or who are...

【美輪明宏】なぜか毎晩同じ時間に目が覚める人…99%が知らない魂からの極秘メッセージ |偉人|名言|言葉の力|人生哲学|
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【美輪明宏】なぜか毎晩同じ時間に目が覚める人…99%が知らない魂からの極秘メッセージ |偉人|名言|言葉の力|人生哲学|

なぜあの人は意地悪ばかりするのか|攻撃されない自分になる方法
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なぜあの人は意地悪ばかりするのか|攻撃されない自分になる方法

[Avoid wasting energy] How to avoid competing with people you don't like
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[Avoid wasting energy] How to avoid competing with people you don't like

7 ways to deal with ``time thieves'' who don't consider the convenience of others and never finis...
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7 ways to deal with ``time thieves'' who don't consider the convenience of others and never finis...