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很多媽媽都會花很多時間跟初生BB聊天講故事，想好好陪伴他，不過部分人可能都試過被旁人潑冷水：「搞掂阿B食痾瞓咪得囉，佢咁細個邊識得咁多嘢啫。仲話要做全職媽媽湊仔添，其實請個人返嚟換片餵奶就得啦。」要照顧BB，放個人在旁邊就夠？事實真的如此？ 參考資料 Egeland, B., & Sroufe, A. (1981). Developmental sequelae of maltreatment in infancy. New Directions for Child and Adolescent Development, 1981(11), 77-92. doi:10.1002/cd.23219811106 Engel, B. (2016). It wasnt your fault: freeing yourself from the shame of childhood abuse with the power of self-compassion. Strawberry Hills, NSW: ReadHowYouWant. inzi-Dottan, R., & Karu, T. (2006). From Emotional Abuse in Childhood to Psychopathology in Adulthood. The Journal of Nervous and Mental Disease, 194(8), 616-621. doi:10.1097/01.nmd.0000230654.49933.23 Schulte, B. (2013, September 16). Effects of child abuse can last a lifetime: Watch the ‘still face’ experiment to see why. Retrieved from The Washington Post Spratt, E. G., Friedenberg, S., Larosa, A., Bellis, M. D., Macias, M. M., Summer, A. P., . . . Brady, K. T. (2012). The Effects of Early Neglect on Cognitive, Language, and Behavioral Functioning in Childhood. Psychology, 03(02), 175-182. doi:10.4236/psych.2012.32026 Streep, P. (2017, January 27). The Brutal Truth About 6 Types of "Quiet" Verbal Abuse. Retrieved from Psychology Today Understanding the Effects of Maltreatment on Brain Development. (n.d.). Retrieved from Child Welfare Information Gateway