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Have you experienced bullying at school? Many of us are either victims, aggressors, or witnesses. And it's not just children. Bullying can happen anywhere: at school, in a club, at work, in the office. This film is based on the real stories of our subscribers who were forced to defend themselves for many years. But they plucked up the courage to share what is traditionally kept silent. In our film, we analyze each case with psychologists who specialize in working with victims of bullying. Watch Nikolai Palkin's special report "BULLYING. Stories of Child Bullying" right now. And share your thoughts on how to resolve problems of bullying in the workplace in the comments. Original film soundtrack by Anatoly Khanzhin Watch other special reports:    • СПЕЦИАЛЬНЫЙ РЕПОРТАЖ | #ОТВ   Bullying 01:05 – What is bullying? How is it different from regular aggression? 01:40 – What is this film about? 01:50 – Eva's Story 03:00 – Teacher: "I was in my eighth period, and I couldn't control myself." 04:30 – "I'm just not like that." 05:02 – Decision: Leave the group. 06:10 – "I look like a prostitute." 07:50 – "The coach started bullying me for being overweight." 08:20 – "A person is labeled." 10:25 – "Necessary violence to achieve results." 11:04 – When did you find out your son was being bullied? 12:49 PM – "He didn't know how to cope" 1:30 PM – Consequences 2:36 PM – Bullying – the cause of unjustified cruelty 3:05 PM – "Bullying makes you stronger" – MYTH 4:00 PM – "A dip in individual performance in sports" 5:28 PM – "No future" 6:00 PM – Humiliation every day 7:00 PM – "School is a traumatic experience" 7:59 PM – "Lesbians are just the beginning" 8:50 PM – "Don't pay attention – they'll leave you alone" – "No!" 9:55 PM – "He was bigger than me. What can I do to him?" 23:00 – "I was really shy back then" 23:16 – "A boy two years older grabbed me by the throat" 24:31 – That very scene 28:00 – "I was afraid someone would find out and they would start teasing me even more" 28:50 – What should a child do if they don't find support from their parents, teacher, or coach? 29:00 – Examples of nastiness 30:40 – The psychotype of an aggressor 32:36 – "I learned to make myself vomit in the morning" 34:40 – On the difficulty of communicating with new people 36:30 – "I'm afraid of pain" 37:20 – When the coach can't cope 39:40 – "You don't know what to do" 41:39 – What to do? 45:10 – "I will never be a bully." 45:40 – "I couldn't be friends with a bully." 46:20 – "I haven't found a single reason in myself for aggression." 47:15 – "I want to be loved." #bullying #childcruelty #Columbine #schoolbullying #specialreport #response #schoolbullyingincidents