EP.147: Why Situationships Are So Hard To Let Go Of

hi everyone! in this week's episode, i talk everything situationships, from whether or not they're toxic, to how to know if you should cut it off, red flags to look for, what to do when one of you catches feelings, & more! enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening! FOLLOW MY NEW IG PAGE!   / stellaraepodcast   LISTEN ON SPOTIFY/APPLE MUSIC/ETC: https://anchor.fm/stella-rae FOLLOW ME ON TIKTOK:   / stellaraeherself   join my discord server!   / discord   my GoodReads:   / stella-rae   MERCH: http://bit.ly/stellaraemerch follow me on IG   / stella.rae   follow me on twitter   / stellarae   follow me on pinterest   / stellaraeherself   support the podcast! http://anchor.fm/stella-rae/support support the podcast! use this amazon link when making purchases http://amzn.to/2u0WGeR my fav books/products/health: www.amazon.com/shop/stellarae listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7... listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Articles/Videos referenced: patriarchal dating red flags: https://www.instagram.com/p/CnOAA-VBT... 10 Signs You're In a 'Situationship': https://www.instyle.com/lifestyle/hum... My Situationship Breakup Hurt More Than Ending My 5-Year Relationship: https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/situ... #stellaraepodcast 00:00 - 01:12 what is a situationship? 01:12 - 01:50 why “I love deep convos” annoys me 01:50 - 02:32 situationships aren’t inherently bad 02:32 - 03:52 why casual hookups aren’t beneficial to women 03:52 - 05:20 men who want girlfriends but don’t want to be boyfriends 05:20 - 07:30 what to do if you like your situationship 07:30 - 08:36 bread crumbing 08:36 - 09:05 find someone who wants the same thing as you 09:05 - 09:36 “Attached” book 09:36 - 11:00 why breaking up with a situationship feels worse than a relationship 11:00 - 12:17 paying attention to how YOU feel 12:17 - 16:32 answering your Q’s about situationships 16:32 - 20:17 signs you’re dealing with a patriarchal male 20:17 - 20:32 outro :)

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