NGAJI HADITS: LARANGAN MEMINTA DENGAN MEMAKSA (Kitab Riyadus Sholihin)

REVIEWING THE HADITH: THE PROHIBITION OF ASKING BY FORCING (The book Riyadus Sholihin, edited by Ustadz Drs. Syamsul Arifin M.Ag) Abu Abdurrahman Muabiyah ibn Abi Sufyan narrated that the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Do not force others to ask. By Allah, if one of you asks me and I give him something under compulsion, it will not be blessed." (Narrated by Imam Muslim). Note: The Prophet (peace be upon him) forbade us from forcing others to ask. He even swore by Allah that if one of you asks the Prophet (peace be upon him) and then gives him something under compulsion, it will not be blessed. This hadith is a continuation of the previous hadith, which states that "the upper hand (giving) is better than the lower hand (being given)." Giving and being given are permissible acts, but the giver is superior to the one given. This hadith teaches us not to be a people who beg, let alone ask forcefully then this has become a haram act. We are prohibited from asking forcefully for the following reasons: 1. Lose our glory or honor. People who ask forcefully will take away the honor of what other people give 2. People who are forced to give usually feel forced and are not sincere 3. People who ask forcefully can disturb the comfort of other people. 4. Asking forcefully will eliminate the blessings of what is given. One recommended act of asking is to apologize to the other person. It is a noble and commendable act for someone to apologize, whether they made a mistake or not. Apologizing is a form of tawadu' (humility). Muslims are encouraged to give, not beg. Islam teaches to give zakat, donations or alms. Zakat must be paid to the assets obtained if they have reached nishof to cleanse the assets and give rights to other people in the assets acquired. On the other hand, if we haven't reached the minimum threshold, we are encouraged to increase our almsgiving and charity. Those who give generously will not go bankrupt, but will actually become richer. Those who give alms will receive many prayers from others, and through these prayers, their lives and wealth will become more blessed. Alms can be given to anyone, including the insane. Give alms well and carefully. Even giving to the insane is rewarded, let alone giving to those who worship, such as through blessed Fridays, breaking the fast on Mondays and Thursdays, or giving alms at dawn. Let's study the Quran daily at: https://chat.whatsapp.com/E1AkiLRnvFG... Watch the video at: https://www.youtube.com/live/Wb97srA8SWg Featuring top Ustadz from UIN Malang: Dr. KH Isroqunnajah, Prof. Roibin, Dr. Syamsul Arifin, Dr. Syuhada, Dr. Mustofa Bisri, Dr. Saiful Mustofa, Gus Najib, Ustadz Alimuddin, KH Dr. Sutaman, Ustadz Zainal Arifin, Ustadz Dr. Abdullah Zainur Rauf M.Hi, and others. 260619. The book RIYADUS SHOLIHIN, Authored by IMAM NAWAWI, supervised by Drs. SYAMSUL ARIFIN M.Ag. Jami' AL ISTI'DAD Mosque, Jl. Joyo Suryo No. 635 Merjosari-Malang, East Java, Indonesia. Please SHARE. Questions/consultations with him: 0857-8566-9933 / 0852 33 1111 74.