How to Get Her In the Mood (& Turn Her On) [Re-Release]

[Original Release Date: October 8th, 2021] I think all the wives will want their husbands to listen to this one. Because I have the good fortune of working with men every (work) day and hearing their unfiltered thoughts about intimacy… I can help you understand why your wife often rejects you. One of the major truths is that it’s SCARY to initiate sex with your wife. So, you probably do… but in general, it’s a half-invested way, in hopes that her rejection won’t feel so painful. Because from experience it has been rejected, even your best attempts. Fast forward to today. Now, because a husband’s attempt at enticing his wife to make love is so “inadequate” for fear of rejection. (Jfyi “inadequate” was the thesaurus’s replacement for “lame” ) For this reason, the wife naturally would reject it. But what if we took the fear out of this exchange entirely? And your enticing her towards intimacy was filling for her and could even be successful!? AND you’re not full of fear. Is that even possible? In this episode, we talk about: • Why many wives respond more to being pursued, wooed, and gently invited than to direct requests for intimacy • The difference between spontaneous desire and responsive desire • Why expectations, pressure, or “strings attached” can shut a wife down • How small acts of tenderness, affection, playfulness, and generosity can help create safety and openness • How to love your wife without demanding a specific response • How a husband can approach his wife with confidence, tenderness, and wisdom I think with these insights, you will be well on your way. to invite a wife–who is never in the mood– to be in the mood! PS – Ready to take the next step in healing your marriage? Schedule a free Clarity Call with one of our Clarity Advisors: delightyourmarriage.com/cc PPS – Here is a quote from a recent Coaching Program graduate: "Before MR, miscommunication and emotional distance were our normal. We argued often, and a deep sense of distrust had taken root, largely because I had failed to make our marriage a true priority…The ongoing conflict left me carrying a constant weight of guilt while doing ministry on campus, knowing things at home were not going well…[After MR], I’ve come to realize that the problem began with me and was fueled by my own selfishness…Shifting from arguing nearly every day—or at least every other day—to having only a handful of disagreements in the past six months has brought a new sense of stability and peace to our home…I now feel equipped with the tools to continue moving our marriage forward." #marriagehelp #intimacyhelp #intimacyinmarriage #christianintimacy #christianmarriage