Gay Money Expert — Why Grindr is so Awful and How the Gays Afford Those Trips

If you’re constantly worrying about money and wondering how you’re going to make it through the summer without maxing out your cards, this episode’s for you. In it, I sit down with finance guru Nick Wolny, author of Money Proud, as he teaches you and me his seven words to generate wealth. We also explore how shame makes us spend beyond our means, why Grindr is designed to make you so miserable, the unique ways LGBTQ folks interact with money, why you need to stop shopping on Instagram, and why investing is the key to building wealth. NICK WOLNY is a finance author and editor. He writes about money, behavior, queer culture, and how they intertwine, usually via his email newsletter Financialicious. Nick is the finance columnist for Out magazine and has provided on-air commentary for CNN, Good Morning America, and others. His first book, Money Proud: The Queer Guide to Generate Wealth, Slay Debt, and Build Good Habits to Secure Your Future, was published with HarperCollins and recommended by The New York Times. We Get Curious About: How consumerism was invented to make you feel like sh*t about yourself How LGBT folks are much more likely to overspend Why gig work isn’t the long-term side hustle we hope it is Nick’s number one tip to start turning your money around How the gays afford all their lavish trips How Grindr’s bugs are all part of their plan to make you miserable Links Money Proud by Nick Wolney: https://nickwolney.com/book Nick on IG:   / nickwolney   Aidan on IG:   / aidanwharton   Getting Close on IG:   / gettingclosepod   Wealthfront Investing App - https://www.wealthfront.com Acorns Investment App - https://www.acorns.com Weapon-Free Funds - https://www.ethicalinvesting.com/weap... Prison-Free Funds - https://www.ethicalinvesting.com/pris... Chapters (00:00) Introduction and Gratitude (02:53) Understanding Money Stress in the LGBTQ+ Community (05:48) The Emotional Side of Spending (09:06) Thought Patterns and Financial Literacy (12:09) The Seven Word Plan for Wealth (14:53) Budgeting and Intentional Spending (17:43) Consumerism and Identity (20:59) The Impact of Advertising on Spending Behavior (26:16) The Economics of Dating Apps (28:04) Exploring Income Opportunities (32:25) The Importance of Multiple Income Streams (33:20) Investing for the Future (39:41) Navigating Ethical Investing (41:58) Community and Connection in Finances

Steven Rowley - on Gay Aging, Reinvention, and Aliens!
▶︎

Steven Rowley - on Gay Aging, Reinvention, and Aliens!

Love & Connection Expert - on Why Gay Dating is so Hard, Modern Love & Hinge's LGBTQ DATE Report
▶︎

Love & Connection Expert - on Why Gay Dating is so Hard, Modern Love & Hinge's LGBTQ DATE Report

Gay, Married, and Open: The Reality of Non-Monogamy | Mini-doc
▶︎

Gay, Married, and Open: The Reality of Non-Monogamy | Mini-doc

Why 2026 Is Beginning to Look Like 1929 (with Andrew Ross Sorkin) | Big Take
▶︎

Why 2026 Is Beginning to Look Like 1929 (with Andrew Ross Sorkin) | Big Take

Why Homosexuals are Drawn to the Religious Life | Rice Professor Jeff Kripal
▶︎

Why Homosexuals are Drawn to the Religious Life | Rice Professor Jeff Kripal

The Gay Teacher Taking on Mike Johnson
▶︎

The Gay Teacher Taking on Mike Johnson

Anti-Aging Expert: Creatine Has a Shocking Link To Alzheimer’s That Doctors Can't Believe
▶︎

Anti-Aging Expert: Creatine Has a Shocking Link To Alzheimer’s That Doctors Can't Believe

We Booked a Cabin in the Woods & Disappeared for 48 Hours...
▶︎

We Booked a Cabin in the Woods & Disappeared for 48 Hours...

Danny Beard on masculinity, Pride flags and the hijacking of patriotism | Tip Toe or Ta-Da
▶︎

Danny Beard on masculinity, Pride flags and the hijacking of patriotism | Tip Toe or Ta-Da

On Being a Man: Men's Health, Algorithms, and the Fight for Third Spaces with Dr. Zac Seidler
▶︎

On Being a Man: Men's Health, Algorithms, and the Fight for Third Spaces with Dr. Zac Seidler

Gay Shame Researcher - on Shame, The Male Gaze, S*x with Your Friends, and Serial Dating
▶︎

Gay Shame Researcher - on Shame, The Male Gaze, S*x with Your Friends, and Serial Dating

Why Tomatoes Are the Most Expensive They've Been in Four Decades | Odd Lots
▶︎

Why Tomatoes Are the Most Expensive They've Been in Four Decades | Odd Lots

10 Years of Abuse… And No One Knew | Kieron Riley on The Tom's Talks Podcast
▶︎

10 Years of Abuse… And No One Knew | Kieron Riley on The Tom's Talks Podcast

Why is the Whole Economy Just Coffee Shops?
▶︎

Why is the Whole Economy Just Coffee Shops?

Asking New Yorkers How Much They Save For Retirement
▶︎

Asking New Yorkers How Much They Save For Retirement

Why Gen Z Is The First Generation Dumber Than Their Parents
▶︎

Why Gen Z Is The First Generation Dumber Than Their Parents

Obsession's queer stars share their set secrets & best relationship advice
▶︎

Obsession's queer stars share their set secrets & best relationship advice

12 FRUGAL Dutch Habits to Save Money (and Simplify Your Life)
▶︎

12 FRUGAL Dutch Habits to Save Money (and Simplify Your Life)

AI and the Future of Work: How Algorithms Manage and Surveil Labor | Jamie Woodcock & Craig Gent
▶︎

AI and the Future of Work: How Algorithms Manage and Surveil Labor | Jamie Woodcock & Craig Gent

How My Parents Found Out I Was Gay
▶︎

How My Parents Found Out I Was Gay