How to Receive More of What You’ve Been Looking For

What if the very thing you keep waiting to receive from someone else is the thing you have not yet learned how to give yourself? In this solo episode of The Confident Woman Podcast, Rachel Brooks opens up a deeply honest conversation about giving, receiving, self-trust, self-respect, love, and the mirror that reveals what we are truly longing for. She speaks to the woman who has been looking for clarity, validation, peace, love, confidence, or direction, only to realize the deeper question may not be, “Why am I not receiving this?” but, “Where have I stopped giving this to myself?” Rachel unpacks why so many of us struggle to fully receive what we say we want, especially when we have not yet built the inner foundation to recognize it, hold it, or believe we are worthy of it. Through personal reflection and Matthew 22:39, she invites you to look at the second half of the command to love your neighbor as yourself and ask what your relationship with yourself is teaching every other relationship in your life. This episode is not about blaming yourself or pretending you do not need love, support, connection, or community. It is about telling the truth about where you may be withholding trust, respect, grace, forgiveness, or love from yourself while searching for it everywhere else. It is about coming back to the mirror, noticing what keeps coming up, and allowing God to reveal what needs your attention now. What You’ll Hear: • Why it can be hard to receive what you have not learned to give yourself • How self-respect, self-trust, and self-love shape the way you show up in every relationship • Why confidence is not where the journey starts, but the result of what you practice • How broken promises to yourself quietly weaken self-trust and confidence over time • What Matthew 22:39 reveals about loving others from a place of stewardship, not self-abandonment • Why the thing you are craving may be pointing you toward the deeper work God is inviting you into • A reflection to help you ask where you may be withholding the very thing you keep waiting to receive Scripture for the Soul: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” — Matthew 22:39 Key Quotes: “Sometimes the thing that we keep looking for outside of ourselves is the very thing we haven’t learned yet to give ourselves.” “Confidence isn’t where it starts. Confidence is a result.” “Confidence is built every time you keep a promise to yourself.” “Sometimes we’re asking God for the whole staircase when He’s asking us to take the next step.” “Everything we desire starts within.” Point to Ponder: Where am I withholding the very thing I keep asking to receive? Subscribe to The Confident Woman Podcast: iamrachelbrooks.com/subscribe Connect with Rachel Brooks: Website: iamrachelbrooks.com (http://iamrachelbrooks.com) Instagram: instagram.com/iamrachelbrooks LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/iamrachelbrooks Podcast: iamrachelbrooks.com/podcast