Мотивация и учёба: как помогать без контроля и ежедневных битв. Рав Рафаэль Шустер

📚 Books on Judaism and Judaic Studies for the Jewish home with worldwide delivery – Toldot Store: https://toldot.com/store/ Rav Raphael Schuster discusses how to help children complete tasks and learn without constant monitoring, pressure, and daily conflicts. The lesson explores why explanations, reminders, threats, and punishments often don't work, how independent action is formed, and why small steps, praise, and enjoyment of the process are more important than willpower. Please note that very soon our lessons and Zoom sessions will be broadcast on the new YouTube channel "Toldot Online." If you usually watch live broadcasts or lesson recordings on this channel, please subscribe now and stay tuned for updates. 🔔 You can subscribe using this link:    / @toldotonline   Please save this link and share it with those who also regularly watch our lessons. See you soon on the new channel! ⏱ Timestamps (Video Navigation) 0:00 — The Desire to Maintain Good Relationships with Children Without Being a Taskmaster 3:08 — Why Children Know What to Do, But Still Don't Do It 5:03 — Explanations, Reminders, Pressure, and Punishments as Habitual Parenting Methods 8:07 — Where Parents Corrupt the System and Why It's Important to Understand What's Not Working 10:02 — When Explanations Really Help, and When They No Longer Provide New Information 13:04 — Why Knowledge of Consequences Alone Doesn't Change Behavior 17:49 — The Main Task: Not to Force Now, but to Teach Children to Do It Independently 20:00 — Parenting as the Development of Independent Action 25:05 — Why the Habit of Obeying Commands Doesn't Become an Inner Desire 29:14 — How Desire Appears and Why Good Decisions Run Out Quickly 34:11 — Laziness as the Avoidance of Suffering and the Limitations of Willpower 39:00 — What Makes an Action Easy or Hard for a Person 45:01 — Pressure, scandals, and threats make the task even more unpleasant 49:13 — How to help a child: small tasks, pleasure, and praise for effort 54:29 — Applying the method to yourself: microsteps instead of self-criticism 55:40 — Concluding the meeting 🌟 Join the Toldot community: ✈️ Telegram: https://t.me/toldot 🟢 WhatsApp: https://toldot.com/whatsapp/toldot/ 🟦 VKontakte: https://vk.com/toldot 🚀 All our projects: https://toldot.com/lp/projects.html Subscribe to stay up to date with new lessons! 🙏 #toldot #rafaelshuster #jewishwisdom #parenting #children #teenagers #motivation #study #parents #family #praise #microsteps #judaism #torah #torahstudying #jewishtradition #jews #judaica #rabbi #torahlessons #weeklychapter #weeklychapter #parshatashavua #tanakh #talmud #midrash #kabbalah #jewishwisdom #halacha #halacha #shabbat #kashrut #jewishholidays #jewishhistory #historyofthejews #faith #god #almighty #prayer #shmaisrael #amidah #spirituality #religion #jewishfamily #familypurity #giyur #jewisheducation #torahwisdom #lawmakers #jidaismlessons #orthodoxjudaism #jerusalem #israel #jewishculture #mashiach #prophets #abraham #itzchak #yaakov #moses #moshe #hasidism #litvak #jewishview #asherkushnir #rabbiasherkushnir #jewish #judaism #torah #israel #jewishwisdom #torahstudy #jewishlearning #jewishlife #hebrew #jewishhistory #bible #oldtestament #spirituality #religion #faith #jewishculture #orthodoxjudaism #rabbi