Wanting to Be Seen Doesn't End After Marriage or Kids ft. Lauren Morrison

Sex Is a Skill. Beducated is where you learn it. Join the world's largest sex school and access 150+ courses for curious adults: https://beduc.at/bg2620-boody -------- In this episode of Lovers, I sit down with my sister Lauren Morrison to say something ick: we both still enjoy attention from men. While we prepare for Mash Majesty, our section for Toronto Caribbean Carnival, we’ve been having important conversations around what carnival represents for us, and in addition to community and culture, it’s also a day to flirt with the gaze! In this episode, we talk about how motherhood, marriage, long-term partnership, and aging can shift the way women experience themselves socially and romantically, especially in a culture that simultaneously rewards female desirability while shaming women for acknowledging that they enjoy it. Together, we unpack why so many women quietly miss feeling desired, why being loved and being wanted are not always the same emotional experience, and how spaces like Carnival and Mash Majesty can reconnect women to embodiment, visibility, sensuality, play, and freedom without shame. This episode is deeply personal, but it’s also connected to the spirit behind Mash Majesty itself: creating a space where women can feel expressive, magnetic, joyful, powerful, sensual, seen, and fully alive in their bodies. If you’ve ever questioned whether it’s shallow to enjoy attention, missed feeling desired in your relationship, or struggled with how motherhood, aging, or partnership changed the way the world responds to you, this conversation is for you. Join us for Toronto Caribbean Carnival August 1st, 2026 https://tribal.masos.app/events/b73d9... Huge S/O for my friend Andrea Lewis for her video on What is Toronto Carnival? Heritage & Beauty & Diversity →    • GlamCulture: What is Toronto Carnival? Her...   CHAPTERS 00:00 Trailer 01:14 What to Expect 04:07 Lauren in Jamaica 06:05 Realizing She Was Attractive 09:49 Mash Majesty 2026 15:53 Next Week’s Episode 19:12 Enjoying Being Desired 19:36 Ayisha Curry on Male Attention 25:18 The Social Cost of Attention 31:16 Seeking Validation Through Carnival 35:01 The History of Carnival 41:03 The Universal Desire to Be Seen 43:12 What Carnival Means to Shan 44:34 Fear, Freedom & Self-Expression 47:33 Carnival is Womanhood 52:04 Mash Majesty 2026 Info 54:43 Pillow Talk Follow Lauren Morrison → Instagram:   / coachlaurenmorrison   → Get Lauren’s new book https://www.amazon.com/Be-Room-Shrink... → Sign up for a free coaching consultation with Lauren https://www.beintheroomcoaching.com/w... Want more Lover? Shan’s AI trained to give you her advice → http://loversbyshan.com Get a free weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community Explore free quizzes + worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: [email protected]