Eigenen Style finden, Confidence & Swag Gap - Nila | 24

Her number one fashion rule? You don't need a reason to overdress. And she means it. Nila is 21, a fashion creator from Frankfurt, and she found her own style long before it was clear where it would lead. In this episode, she candidly shares how 5 a.m. outfit checks before school turned into a career, why fashion is a form of art for her, and how much confidence comes from wearing the right clothes. Also: how she flew to her first Fashion Week in Paris alone and without management, and what she thinks about the swag gap and "being yourself" when it comes to dating. 🎙️ In this episode: Finding your own style and why you're never truly "finished" 5 a.m., outfit checks: how a school hobby became a career Dramatically overdressed in high school and simply owning it Fashion as an art form & how fashion gives you real self-confidence Alone and without management to her first Fashion Week in Paris The swag gap: do you have to "match" when dating? Why "being yourself" is more important than any trend when dating The UP! moment: spontaneously cutting her hair at Coachella UP!DATE isn't a dating guide. It's an invitation to rediscover yourself. And maybe this time, too, there's that one UP! moment that sticks with you – because it simply feels real. SOCIALS: Instagram -   / pickup.de   TikTok -   / pickup.de   Host: Daniele -   / datedoktordaniele   A production by BIANCO Berlin & BEN.Studio Guest: Nila -   / nila   New episodes: 🎧 Every Thursday – as a video podcast on Spotify, YouTube & wherever you get your podcasts. Intro music: "Kribbeln im Bauch" (Butterflies in My Stomach), 00:02:49, DEZC62532087, (Composer Emil Holgersson Perslow / Composer Jesus Alberto Acosta Almengo - Lyricist Emil Holgersson Perslow / Lyricist Jorin Hagen / Lyricist John Luca Wendtland) Published by: Copyright Control Performer: Emil (Primary) and Jorin Hagen (Primary) and JHNWNDT (Primary) and prodbyTAA (Primary) Vocal: Jorin Hagen / Emil Holgersson Perslow / John Luca Wendtland Producer: Emil Holgersson Perslow / Jesus Alberto Acosta Almengo (2025) Organ Enterprise & TwoSides distributed by FOUR Music Productions GmbH Repertoire Owner: Four Music, Berlin 00:00 – Intro 03:19 – Outfit Checks at 5 a.m. & Overdressed at School 15:41 – From Hobby to Profession 16:40 – Gossip & the Profile on the Smartboard 19:53 – First Influencer Events & PR Gifts 23:06 – Finding Your Own Style 24:37 – Fashion, Confidence & Style Tips 33:11 – Fashion as an Art Form & Fashion Week 36:01 – First Fashion Week in Paris 40:14 – “At 80, still doing outfit checks” 41:35 – Dating & the Swag Gap 45:21 – Skinny jeans comeback?! 56:14 – Overdressed on a date? & the “tea” moment 59:28 - Nila's UP!Moment 1:02:15 – Outro & Daniele’s UP!Moment