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Promo code TOLOKOLYUBOV for an 8% discount on any order at Periodica: https://periodica.press/products/?cat... What happens to family relationships as we grow older and our parents age? Why is love so often mixed with irritation, guilt, and helplessness? And how can we talk to our parents about care, illness, boundaries, and even death without destroying intimacy? In this episode of the "Close People" podcast, Varya Vedeneyeva speaks with Anna Vall, a philologist, etiquette expert, speech culture specialist, and communications consultant at the Three Sisters Clinic. We discuss: — how to transition to an adult-to-adult relationship with parents — why generational conflict arises — how to care for elderly parents without humiliating them — how to maintain dignity, love, and respect in the family — how to talk about illness, caregiving, and the last conversation — ​​what family ethics are in the most difficult moments of life Subscribe to the podcast channel to learn about new episodes and follow our guests on social media: Podcast Telegram: https://t.me/periodicapodcast Varya's Telegram channel: https://t.me/varya_daily Varya's Instagram:   / varyavedeneeva   The podcast "Close People" is about the modern family: relationships, raising children, traditions, and overcoming crises. We explore intimacy and try to understand how to maintain it for years to come. 💙 We, the Periodica team, are creating a photobook printing service for family and personal archives, to preserve memories of important moments in life. 💙 Host: Varya Vedeneyeva, founder of the Periodica photobook printing service, the 365done.ru project with free checklists and trackers, and the author of diaries for developing mindfulness skills. For questions and suggestions, please email [email protected]. *Instagram is owned by Meta, whose activities are considered extremist and banned in Russia. TIMESTAMPS 0:00 — What this episode is about 1:37 — How to communicate with parents like adults 2:34 — When parents become "children" 4:28 — Care, old age, and dignity 6:31 — Our relationships with parents — an example for children 7:17 — Generational conflict in the family 10:27 — How to care for parents without humiliating them 14:10 — Boundaries with parents and the struggle for power 18:57 — Why the older generation doesn't want to live just for their grandchildren 24:05 — Why adult children find it difficult to be around their parents 28:11 — Family grievances that last for years 31:50 — How to talk to parents about health and help 40:01 — How not to lose your life while caring for your mother 41:13 — Caregivers, nursing homes, and guilt 44:26 — Money, inheritance, and difficult decisions 48:58 — What to do if a parent refuses treatment 53:14 — What is humaneness in medicine 56:59 — What do older people lack? 1:01:49 — How to establish contact with elderly parents 1:03:28 — Why is it so difficult to find the right words? 1:09:27 — What to talk about in the last conversation 1:12:25 — Why do people need family? 1:19:55 — The Finale