What happens to the person who hurt you when you forgive them? The answer may surprise you!

What happens when you refuse to forgive the narcissist who hurt you? And perhaps even more surprising… What happens to the narcissist when you forgive them? After surviving thirteen years with a narcissist—including ten years of marriage—I wrestled with these questions before God. Through prayer, Scripture, and personal experience, the Lord began showing me that forgiveness isn't about excusing abuse, forgetting what happened, or allowing toxic people back into our lives. Forgiveness is about freedom. In this video, we explore: ✔️ What unforgiveness does to victims of narcissistic abuse. ✔️ What happens when victims choose forgiveness. ✔️ Whether your forgiveness affects the abuser. ✔️ Why forgiveness doesn't remove accountability. ✔️ Joseph, Gideon, and lessons from Scripture. ✔️ Why justice belongs to God. ✔️ How peace begins when we stop trying to manage another person's soul. If you've struggled with betrayal, lies, emotional abuse, false accusations, manipulation, or abandonment, I pray this message brings encouragement and hope. "Leave justice with the Father. Leave the past behind. Follow Me. And together we'll turn your wounds into wisdom." ❤️ Please LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE to help others find hope and healing. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Welcome to my YouTube channel, where I share my journey of moving from the UK to Jamaica in search of spiritual growth, a deeper connection with my Creator, living in nature to promote a healthy lifestyle, be the master of my own life decisions and for my dreams to become a reality. I share my experiences and insights with others who are interested in similar topics. Join me as I explore the challenges and rewards of this exciting journey, and learn from my thoughts and observations about spirituality, personal freedom, and optimum health. Many thanks for watching ❤️ If my videos resonate with you and you'd like to help me grow, your support makes all the difference. Every contribution, big or small, fuels my mission to create uplifting, inspiring content. Buy me a coffee https://buymeacoffee.com/denise111 Many thanks for donating ♥️ You can reach me by email: [email protected]

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They hurt you. They never apologized. Can you forgive them?

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