Why Is Everyone Hating on Lindy West’s "Adult Braces"?

In this installment of Memoir Nation's All Things Memoir, Brooke takes on the four primary reasons people are hating on Lindy West's new memoir, Adult Braces, none of which really have to do with the book itself. There's the polyamory, the belief that she's trying to convince herself she wants to be in this throuple, perceptions that she's in an abusive relationship. And much more. Brooke also talks about the memoir and its actual merits, and explains how and why we're here, and why Lindy West finds herself again at the center of so much online hate. Further Reading: Scaachi Koul on Slate: Lindy West’s How-Not-To Guide to Polyamory https://slate.com/life/2026/03/lindy-... Jennifer Weiner: The Inevitable Substack https://jenniferweiner.substack.com/p... Leigh Stein: The Attention Economy https://leighstein.substack.com/p/i-e... Dan Savage’s Poly Under Duress https://www.portlandmercury.com/savag... Polyamory Is Not Too Good To Be True: Lindy, Roya, & Aham On The Best Relationship Of Their Lives Video:    • Polyamory Is Not Too Good To Be True: Lind...  

Lindy West’s Husband Sent Slate Writer Scaachi Koul a Wild Email
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Lindy West’s Husband Sent Slate Writer Scaachi Koul a Wild Email

Lindy West & The Pitfalls of Adaptation
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Lindy West & The Pitfalls of Adaptation

Adult Braces: Polyamory and Minding Other People's Relationships
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Adult Braces: Polyamory and Minding Other People's Relationships

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15 Hollywood Stars Whose Facelifts Went Too Far (It's Getting Worse)

Amy Griffin's The Tell and the scandal's impact on abuse survivors and the genre of memoir.
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Amy Griffin's The Tell and the scandal's impact on abuse survivors and the genre of memoir.

All Things Memoir  - The Controversy Surrounding "The Tell" by Amy Griffin
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All Things Memoir - The Controversy Surrounding "The Tell" by Amy Griffin

Everyone is lying to you about "Famesick" by Lena Dunham.
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Everyone is lying to you about "Famesick" by Lena Dunham.

These Sherpas Knew This Family Was Going To Die
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These Sherpas Knew This Family Was Going To Die

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110: Opened: Polyamory, Desire, and Sexual Empowerment with Courtney Boyer

Saving Women from Themselves: Lindy West is Peak AWFUL Self-Destruction
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Saving Women from Themselves: Lindy West is Peak AWFUL Self-Destruction

Toby:  neuter, genderless person pt1
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Toby: neuter, genderless person pt1

Writer Lindy West's PATHETIC Attempt to Rationalize Her Decision to Adopt a Polyamorous Marriage
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Writer Lindy West's PATHETIC Attempt to Rationalize Her Decision to Adopt a Polyamorous Marriage

Lena Dunham on Adam Driver and the “frustration” between them on the “Girls” set
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Lena Dunham on Adam Driver and the “frustration” between them on the “Girls” set

The woman who wrote "Eat, Pray, Love" planned to k*ll her girlfriend and wrote a new book about it.
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The woman who wrote "Eat, Pray, Love" planned to k*ll her girlfriend and wrote a new book about it.

Why Lindy West's new memoir is making waves
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Why Lindy West's new memoir is making waves

Richard Dawkins: AI, Memes, And Why I’m Angry About The Gender Debate
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Richard Dawkins: AI, Memes, And Why I’m Angry About The Gender Debate

Lindy West, Polyamory, and Millennial Feminism (w/Alise & Milly!)
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Lindy West, Polyamory, and Millennial Feminism (w/Alise & Milly!)

The Hunting Wives is the gayest show of the summer with Malin Akerman
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The Hunting Wives is the gayest show of the summer with Malin Akerman

Men Will Ruin Famous Women’s Brand—The Lindy West Backlash Explained
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Men Will Ruin Famous Women’s Brand—The Lindy West Backlash Explained

The lesbian book that inspired Sarah Waters' Tipping the Velvet. (Patience and Sarah)
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The lesbian book that inspired Sarah Waters' Tipping the Velvet. (Patience and Sarah)