Why My Rebellious Teenage Years Made Me Better at Helping Teens

For a long time, I felt embarrassed by the fact that I was a rebellious teenager who questioned authority, made risky choices, and did not always treat my parents or teachers well. Now I realize those experiences may be one of the biggest reasons I connect so well with young people, especially those who feel misunderstood, resist being told what to do, or believe the adults in their lives are not truly listening. Recently, several clients told me that I talk to them like real people rather than acting as though I know everything, and that may be one of the greatest compliments I could receive. Teens and young adults need adults who will listen with curiosity, respect their perspective, and admit that none of us has life completely figured out. Sometimes having a neutral person to talk to can help a young person hear, process, and use the guidance their parents have been trying so hard to give them. If your teen or young adult needs someone who will listen without judging, lecturing, or talking down to them, contact me to learn more about coaching.