What makes a "good guy"? The Holiday shows us
The Holiday is a Christmas Classic and you don't even know it, and yes, I will fight you on this. It's shaped common knowledge more than you realise AND is still incredibly relevant today! From the issues of falling for the "idea" of someone, to "nice guys" to the many ridiculous pressures on women to gumption and so much more. Kate Winslet, Cameron Diaz, Jack Black, and Jude Law made what could have been a cringey, terrible Hallmark movie into something people return to every year, and for good reason. Plus the score is by Hans Zimmer, what more could you want? Let's connect: Patreon: / bryonyclaire IG: https://www.instagram.com/bryonyclair... business enquiries only: [email protected] 00:00 intro 01:47 breadcrumbs are bs 06:23 the "idea" of someone can never be met 10:48 "nice guys" vs genuine guys 16:09 fear mongering us into subservience 18:58 love is not only romantic 20:19 all you need is gumption 22:31 honorable mentions 26:30 final thoughts videos recommended: @OlurinattiPOP • Why Charlotte Didn't Deserve Trey | Sex An... @drewisgooden • The internet made me obsessed with protein @romooknee / @romooknee Sources: https://www.marieclaire.com/celebrity... https://www.theguardian.com/world/200.... https://www.apa.org/monitor/2014/10/c... https://www.eonline.com/news/1215449/... https://people.com/all-about-jude-law... https://usustatesman.com/brandon-flow... https://www.theguardian.com/music/201...

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