Multiamory on Unicorn Hunters, Jealousy & Poly vs. Swinging | Beyond Monogamy

The hosts of one of the most respected podcasts in the non-monogamy world just sat down with us — and it was everything. Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Sotelo Matlack from Multiamory joined Adam and Pris for a conversation that honestly should have happened years ago. We cover the real overlap between polyamory and swinging, unicorn hunters and why the two communities see them so differently, the one penis policy and toxic masculinity in the lifestyle, jealousy (and why everyone has a price), what to do when one partner wants sex and the other wants connection, and how three people survived a collapsing quad and turned it into a decade-long podcast empire. This is the episode we needed back in 2016 when we were flying blind. If you're in that place right now — you're welcome. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🔗 FIND MULTIAMORY ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🌐 Website: https://www.multiamory.com 🎙️ Podcast: Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and everywhere you listen 📸 Instagram: @multiamory_podcast 💬 Community + ad-free episodes: https://multiamory.supercast.com 📚 Book: Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships → Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1627783202 → Audible (narrated by Emily): https://www.audible.com/pd/Multiamory... → Also at Barnes & Noble, your local bookstore, or request it at your library ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🍍 BEYOND MONOGAMY ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🌐 Website: https://www.beyond-monogamy.com 📻 Live every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central: https://www.fullswapradio.com ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 📅 UPCOMING EVENTS ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎉 Beyond Monogamy Live @ Club Eden San Antonio — June 20th Club membership required to attend. 🎉 Naughty N'awlins — July 8–12, 2026 | New Orleans Come find our Beyond Monogamy booth! 🎉 Krazy Winter Nights Kansas City — February 19–21, 2027 Use code BEYOMONO at https://www.krazykasbh.com for a discount ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 💥 SPONSOR ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 3Fun — the #1 app for couples and singles in the lifestyle. Download free: https://www.go3fun.co/ad/TK11932 ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ If this episode meant something to you, share it with someone who needs it. Leave us a review. Subscribe if you haven't. Every single one of those things helps us reach more people who are out here trying to figure this stuff out — just like you. We see you. We were you.