How can I support my addicted loved one when I'm filled with Anger Hurt and Resentment?

How do I get over the resentment, the horrid incidents when I was rejected and humiliated and deeply hurt by my addicted husband. I want to do my best but there is this dark patch of pain and fear, how am I supposed to reconcile the past with the invisible intervention? Viewer Question: How do I master the willpower to tell myself that what had happened does not matter that only moving forward matters, that this is truly what I want. I guess (like you said) it is not fair, it will never be fair, but maybe it will become bearable, better, and maybe as a family, we will be able to move forward if there is some improvement. 🟣The Invisible Intervention: https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.onl... 💟💌Support this channel by hitting the "Thanks" button below the video! ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: 📑Access our FREE Family Recovery Resources: https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.onl... 📆To make an appointment with one of our specialists: https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.onl... INTERVENE WITH AN ADDICTED LOVED ONE: 👇 https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.onl... ⏩Get Access To Our FAST TRACK family recovery programs, visit 👉 https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online 👪FREE Family Recovery Support Group on Facebook:   / familyrecoverysupport   💌Access counseling anytime/anywhere through Better Help: (Use this link to get 10% off!) https://www.betterhelp.com/PutTheShov... (**Better Help is a sponsor of Put The Shovel Down. Using Better Help counseling services helps support our channel!**) 📚Recommended Books: https://www.amazon.com/shop/addiction... SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL: 🔊📣 If you find our videos helpful there are several WAYS YOU CAN HELP us reach more people: 1. LIKES AND COMMENTS let google know that people find value in our videos, which triggers Google to show our videos to more people. This helps tremendously! 2. SHARING our videos is one of the fastest ways to help us spread the message of family recovery. We're always getting comments from people saying they wished they'd found us sooner. Help us get our message to the people who need it by sharing the videos you find most helpful! 3. There is a little button underneath every video that says "Thanks". This button will allow you to give a small donation and to show your appreciation for any video you find particularly helpful. 4. If you'd like to help financially SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL, you can use this link to MAKE A DONATION through PayPal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/hopef... 5. Anytime you PURCHASE A RECOMMENDED BOOK (or other resources) using our amazon affiliate link, Hope For Families receives a small commission from Amazon. (But don't worry, it won't affect the price you pay!) https://www.amazon.com/shop/addiction... 6. Consider leaving us a review on Google. 🆓 (This helps us tremendously!): https://g.page/r/CT0YdeZnEeEtEBM/review *100% of all donations go to help cover the cost of producing videos and adding to our library of FREE online recovery resources that are available to anyone/everyone who may need the information.