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பிள்ளை வளர்ப்பு ஒவ்வொரு தந்தையும் பார்க்கவேண்டிய பதிவு | Moulavi Aadhil Hasan (Islamic Tamil Bayan) - Every fathers must be watch this videos because our societies very dangerous. every fathers should be purnished your kids Thank you so mutch. Thanks for watching this videos. islam is talk about fathers son responsibility. Fathers and son relationships talk in islam Subscribe to our Channel ‪@VahiMedia‬ #tamilislamicscholar #tamilbayan #bayantamil #islamictamilbayan #vahimedia #moulaviaadhilhasan Moulavi Aadhil Hasan Bayan Tamil Bayan Aadhil Hasan Moulavi Moulavi Aadhil Hasan Tamil Bayan Tamil Bayan Bayan Tamil Islamic Tamil Bayan Islamic Bayan Aadhil Hasan Bayan Could you please advise us about how to improve our manners, and raise our children to have good manners? As many of the scholars mentioned, they studied under their teachers for years to learn proper manners. I am very concerned because it seems that we are surrounded by bad examples and role models, and the standards of society are very low. I am a revert to Islam so I was not raised with good Islamic manners. I don’t have the knowledge or training to be a very good role model. My children’s TV watching is very restricted, but they still interact with cousins and friends who pick up bad words and attitudes from TV. We also educate our children at home. But as much as we shelter them and instruct them, they seem to pick up some of the attitudes of the greater society. I am torn between whether I should continue trying to remain patient and remind them gently, or I should become more strict to enforce better behavior. We would really appreciate any advice that you could offer. Praise be to Allah. We congratulate you for the blessing that has been bestowed upon you of guidance to Islam , and we ask Allah, may He be exalted, to make us and you steadfast in adhering to this religion until we meet Him when He is pleased with us. We also congratulate you for your keenness to give your children a good upbringing. With regard to the answer to your question, we will point out some important matters in the hope that they will help you, with the help of Allah, may He be exalted, in what you are striving to achieve. Bad behaviour in most cases is in accordance with a person’s whims and desires It is essential to point out that bad behaviour in most cases is in accordance with a person’s whims and desires; hence the child will pick up bad behaviour with the slightest influence and the most insignificant of reasons. On the other hand, good behaviour means disciplining oneself and restraining oneself from whims and desires that are detrimental to one’s own best interests. Good behaviour means following a path that is contrary to the whims and desires of the self, so it is a constructive process that requires effort and striving. A sound upbringing is one that instills good attitude and behaviour firmly in the child’s heart and mind so that he will be able to resist corrupt whims and desires, and he will not feel comfortable except with things that help him adhere to the path of righteousness and will despise anything that is contrary to good values. How to raise your children In order for the child to accept this good attitude and behaviour, it is essential to make that beloved to him. Love cannot be instilled by means of force and harshness; rather it needs the following: 1. Kindness and gentleness There are a number of hadiths in which the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) teaches us to use kindness and gentleness when interacting with others, such as the following: ‘Aishah, the wife of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Verily Allah loves kindness in all things.” Narrated by al-Bukhari, 6024. Muslim (2592) narrated from Jarir that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever is deprived of kindness is deprived of goodness.” ‘Aishah, the wife of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said, narrating from the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him): “There is no kindness in a thing but it adorns it, and it is not taken away from a thing but it makes it defective.”