EP34: The Science Behind Everyday Behaviour

Why does a child hit, scream, refuse an instruction, or suddenly melt down? Many of us instinctively focus on stopping the behaviour. But what if behaviour is actually communication? In this episode, Kevin speaks with Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA) Xin Yi to unpack the science behind everyday behaviour. Together, they explore why behaviour happens, how children learn from their environment, and why understanding the "why" behind a behaviour is often more important than simply trying to stop it. Whether you're a parent, caregiver, educator, or simply curious about Applied Behaviour Analysis (ABA), this conversation offers practical insights that can help you respond with greater understanding, curiosity, and confidence. In this episode, we discuss: Why behaviour is more than just "good" or "bad." The hidden reasons behind behaviours like hitting, tantrums, and meltdowns. How understanding the function of behaviour leads to better support and skill-building. The role of motivation, reinforcement, and teaching replacement behaviours. Common misconceptions about ABA and behaviour management. Every behaviour tells a story. When we learn to understand the message, we can better support the child behind it. If you found this episode helpful, we'd love your support. Follow or subscribe to Adapting Together so you won't miss future conversations. If you know another parent, caregiver, teacher, or family member who may benefit from this episode, please share it with them. We'd also love to hear from you. What topics would you like us to cover? What questions are you navigating in your autism journey? Leave us a comment, share your feedback, or email us at ⁠[email protected]⁠ Your ideas and experiences help shape future episodes and support our growing community.