how AVOIDANTS TEST you before PICKING you

As a therapist I see many different patients and I notice patterns in relationships with avoidants. This does is not a one size fits all approach. This is just a GENERAL guide. This is not meant to be used to manipulate a partner but to help both individuals become more open to love as well as have a long-lasting relationship. I work with a lot of couples/ long term situations so this may reflect more for long term relationships. Disclaimer: Examples are fictional. There is no identifying information since these are fictional scenarios meaning it cannot be traced to anyone. None are a real event or person. They are entirely, 100% examples. Not real. I am a practicing therapist, and I notice a lot of my patients struggle to connect as well as understand their significant other. This video is intended to enlighten and encourage as well as provide education. This video is not a substitute for therapy. This is made NOT using my license because ANY person can make a video and post it on the internet. This is separate from me practicing as a therapist. I am not your particular therapist during this video, and this is not intended as therapeutic advice, therapeutic interventions ect.