Por qué repites los mismos patrones tóxicos en el amor. I Del Divorcio Se Sale #20

Welcome to a new episode! Today we're joined by Xavier Roura, a former engineer who decided to transform his life to dedicate himself to psychological astrology after going through a profound personal crisis. In this fascinating conversation, we demystify "magazine astrology" to delve into what our birth chart truly means as a tool for self-knowledge. Xavi explains how our sun sign shapes our essence and why the Ascendant acts as the "vehicle" that helps us journey toward our life's purpose. We also discuss such transcendental concepts as destiny, free will, and the hidden reasons why we repeat painful patterns in our relationships. We also analyze the current turbulent astrological moment: Why are we experiencing so many breakups? With Pluto's entry into Aquarius, society is undergoing a brutal paradigm shift, where masculine and feminine energies are reversed, leaving us disoriented when it comes to love. And keep an eye on the future: we reflect on how digital hyperconnectivity, rapid dopamine stimuli, and artificial intelligence are affecting the way we connect emotionally and sexually. 🔔 Subscribe so you don't miss our upcoming interviews and debates. 📚 NEW RELEASE! I'm thrilled to announce that my book is now ON SALE: “You Can Get Through Divorce: A Guide to Rebirth and Shine When Everything Seems to Be Falling Apart.” It's for you if you're in the midst of a legal storm and don't want to make mistakes that could ruin your life. And also for those about to get married who want to do so with their eyes open and well protected. Don't leave your future to chance. Link: https://bit.ly/4szauH8 ➡️ XAVIER ROURA'S SOCIAL MEDIA/ Instagram: @xavi_roura ➡️ ELENA'S SOCIAL MEDIA/ Instagram: @elena.crespo.lorenzo Website(s): https://www.elenacrespolorenzo.com/ My law firm: https://www.crespolaw.es/ ⏰ CONTENTS: 00:00 - Podcast Introduction 00:50 - Announcement: The book "You Can Get Over Divorce" is now on sale 01:29 - Introduction and welcome to Xavi Roura 01:59 - From Engineer to Astrologer: A Crisis and a Radical Life Change 03:06 - What is a birth chart really for? 04:05 - The Myth of the Magazine Horoscope: Why We Are Not All the Same 05:17 - The Sun in the Birth Chart: Your Essence and the Protagonist of the System 06:20 - The Ascendant: The Vehicle (Body) to Reach Your Life Purpose 10:30 - Why We Reject Our Ascendant (and Our Body) Until Age 30 12:13 - Destiny vs. Free Will: Is Everything Predetermined? Why We Repeat Patterns 14:20 - Karmic Lessons and How to Integrate Energies (The Boxing Example) 18:18 - Why Are There So Many Breakups? Pluto in Aquarius and the Paradigm Shift 19:59 - Reversal of Energetic Roles: Yang Women, Yin Men, and Disorientation 22:46 - The Future of Love and Sex: Artificial Intelligence and Virtual Love 26:17 - The Matrix, Emotional Disconnection, and Dopamine Overstimulation 29:19 - Love in 2026: Rational Rhythm vs. Emotional Rhythm and the End of Infatuation 32:28 - Jupiter in Leo: Who Will Have the Most Luck in Love This Year? 34:16 - Global Tension and Anger: The Influence of Saturn and Neptune in Aries 37:15 - Aries Leadership vs. Leo Leadership (The Braveheart Style) 40:13 - Channeling anger and aggression through sports and sex 43:07 - Synastry and Compatibility: Do soulmates and karmic relationships exist? 46:57 - Do we choose our family at birth? The soul's purpose (Nodes) 50:02 - Xavi's great advice for overcoming a breakup, healing wounds, and saying goodbye