These Polyamorous Influencers Are Hurting People: The Damage of Decolonizing Love

Speical thanks to all of the other content creators who have come before me in calling out the harmful practices of Decolonizing Love, and who helped to make this video possible: Ebony of @MarjaniLane, Tiffany of @RealPolyLife, Mel Cassidy of @RadicalRelating, Laura from ‪@readyforpolyamory‬ Marla from @Polyamarla, Heidi from @Steadypolyamory, Andrea at @Infinitepolyam, and ‪@KatBlaque‬ Tiffany was recently in a car accident, and if you'd like to support the recovery process, you can do so at: https://gofund.me/56a136d5 And this is the Shibari class Midori is teaching THIS WEEK on the 7th! bit (.) ly/4lj9aEE ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ ▼▼▼ SUPPORT AND SUBSCRIBE ▼▼▼ Subscribe to my channel:    / evielupine   My Patreon:   / evielupine   & For 1:1 Chats, Advice & Video Calls:   / evielupine2   Twitter: @EvieLupine Watch me LIVE on Twitch!   / evielupine   Looking to meet kinky people? Try Feeld*: feeld.pxf.io/9gLNnQ Want Even MORE BDSM Education? Check Out Dom Sub Living*: https://evielupine--domsubliving.thri... https://evielupine--domsubliving.thri... FREE resource Library: https://evielupine--domsubliving.thri... My BDSM Merch Store: https://teespring.com/stores/evie-lupine Business Inquiries ONLY: [email protected] [DO NOT SEND YOUR PERSONAL QUESTIONS HERE] ▼▼▼ RELATED VIDEOS ▼▼▼ Polyfamily Is Terrible:    • Polyfamily is TERRIBLE and it scares me. |...   Are women being brainwashed by polyamory?    • Are Women Being Brainwashed Into Polyamory...   What People Get Wrong About Polyamory:    • What People get WRONG About Polyamory | "P...   Twitter Discovered CNC:    • Twitter Discovered CNC and They Are MAD | ...   Vanilla-Shaming on TikTok:    • Vanilla Shaming, TikTok & the Normalizatio...   ▼▼▼ VIDEO INFORMATION ▼▼▼ FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY. All of my videos are intended to provide safety information for adults who choose to engage in these activities, as well as combat stereotypes and misinformation. In addition these videos may contain educational commentary on queer issues, pop culture, and news items. No portion of my content is meant to be used for gratification, nor is it intentionally salacious. [direct links not included below due to censorship] Recommended Books: Hurts So Good: the Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose by Leigh Cowart A Lover's Pinch, A Cultural History of Sadomasochism by Peter Tupper Radical Intimacy by Sophie K. Rosa Opening Up by Tristan Taormino Recommended Resources: Kinbaku Today Kinbakunomicon Barkas's conversation on the Beauty of Kinbaku Midori's Shibari Myths class: bit (.) ly/4lj9aEE LIVE AUGUST 7TH! 00:00:00 - introduction 00:05:30 - Decolonizing Love's brand 00:07:40 - hierarchy is harmful? 00:15:15 - conflict with Black Americans 00:17:45 - transphobia 00:25:45 - kinkphobia 00:40:25 - misinformation 00:46:00 - harming clients 00:56:32 - are they even really radical? 00:59:00 - so, is this a cult? 01:04:00 - final thoughts ▼▼▼ EVERYTHING ELSE ▼▼▼ Art by: @animositi on Instagram Credits/Attribution (Music): Artist: Audionautix Website: http://audionautix.com/ Track: Transportation Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution license (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/) All content used falls within fair use guidelines for education and commentary purposes. = affiliate link ▼▼▼ P.O BOX ▼▼▼ Evie Lupine 4233 SE 182nd Ave 357 Gresham, OR 97030