Why Smart People Make TERRIBLE Money Decisions During Divorce | Bruce Sellery

Supporting women and men divorcing in British Columbia and across Canada with trusted legal and financial guidance, parenting insights, and support for navigating life during and after divorce. In this episode of The Divorce Circle Podcast, Sabeena is joined by one of Canada’s most trusted voices in personal finance, Bruce Sellery, to explore why even intelligent, financially responsible people often make their worst money decisions during stressful life events like divorce and separation. BE SURE TO SUBSCRIBE so you never miss an episode — and please like, share, and comment to support the channel. Those small actions make a huge difference. Divorce is emotional. And when emotions take over, financial decisions often suffer. Bruce explains why fear, guilt, stress, urgency, and uncertainty can lead people into costly financial mistakes — from overspending and panic-driven choices to rushing into housing or investment decisions before they are emotionally or financially ready. Together, Sabeena and Bruce discuss: • why “facts and feelings” collide during divorce • how guilt can quietly drive financial behaviour • the importance of self-care during financial stress • why living within your means matters more than appearances • rebuilding financial confidence after major setbacks • why action matters more than confidence • and how to rethink your entire relationship with money Bruce also shares one of the most important mindset shifts people can make:👉 asking themselves, “What is your money actually for?” If you’re navigating divorce, separation, or a major life transition, this conversation offers practical financial wisdom grounded in real human behaviour — not shame or judgment. 🎧 On the go?You can listen to this full conversation on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favourite podcast app by searching: The Divorce Circle Podcast. ⏱️ CHAPTERS 0:00 - History of Credit Canada 3:21 - Why Do Smart People Make Money Mistakes? 6:00 - Biggest Financial Mistakes During Divorce 8:34 - Fear & Financial Decision Making 10:23 - Self Care During Financial Stress 11:52 - Guilt & Overspending After Divorce 14:16 - Financial Decisions People Regret Later 16:39 - Housing & Investments: Don’t Rush 18:47 - Rebuilding Financial Confidence 21:52 - Financial Framework Under Stress 24:43 - What Is Your Money Actually For? 27:15 - Advice for Anyone Feeling Overwhelmed 🔗 RELATED EPISODES    • Divorce Court Is a Mistake for Most People...      • How to Know If Your Relationship Is Actual...      • Why So Many Women Rethink Their Lives in P...   If you’re navigating separation or divorce, you don’t have to do it alone. The Divorce Circle offers trusted resources, expert guidance, and support for women and men across British Columbia and Canada. 👉 Explore available resources here:https://www.divorcecircle.ca/ Feel free to share your thoughts or questions in the comments — your experience may help someone else too. 👨‍💼 About Bruce Sellery Bruce Sellery is one of Canada’s most trusted personal finance voices and the CEO of Credit Canada, the country’s first and longest-standing non-profit credit counselling agency. He is the bestselling author of Moolala: Why Smart People Do Dumb Things with Their Money and host of Moolala: Money Made Simple on SiriusXM. Bruce is also a regular contributor on Breakfast Television and CBC Radio, helping Canadians better understand the emotional and behavioural side of money. Learn more about Bruce Sellery here: https://www.creditcanada.com/ https://moolala.ca/ #divorcecircle #divorcecanada #financialmistakes#personalfinance #moneymindset #brucesellery#divorceadvice #financialstress #lifeafterdivorce#moneyandrelationships #divorcesupport #financialrecovery#womenandmoney #canadianfinance #emotionalspending