పిల్లల్లో 'సెల్ఫ్ వర్త్' పెంచడం ఎలా? | SHIVA CHANDANA | SQUARE TALKS |

This resource explains that children constantly crave the praise or opinion of others for everything they do, which is called 'validation addiction', and it is very dangerous. These children ask "How did I do? What is your opinion?" for every little thing; although they may seem to be asking to learn, in reality they only want positive feedback If someone says something negative or in the form of advice, they cannot accept it and counter it or think that the person does not understand . This can damage the relationships between parents and other family members with their children . Parents should recognize that the root cause of this is a decrease in self-worth or self-esteem in children . Methods that parents should follow to change children: Do not get irritated when children ask this question, and gently explain to them that asking too many questions will make others think that their opinion is not valuable . Assign small tasks to build confidence in children . In particular, they should not be praised every time they do their own work (for example, cleaning the room); this will help them develop a habit of self-satisfaction with their work. Since such children are at risk of estrangement from their parents due to their inability to handle negativity, they should be dealt with very gently, softly and steadily .