Ela dizia que nunca teria filhos e hoje é mãe de dois: como aconteceu essa mudança? | VSC #28

In today's episode, Vanessa shares her journey of transformation: from someone who firmly said she didn't want to have children, to the moment she decided it was time to be a mother. She talks about the fears, insecurities and everything that involved this change in perspective. She told us what it was like to talk to João about this new phase, the decision to try to get pregnant and how she experienced her second pregnancy. A sincere and moving account of how motherhood, which once seemed distant, is now an essential part of her life — and, without a doubt, the best choice she has ever made. [0:00] Introduction [1:46] My story with motherhood: I didn't want to be a mother and now I have 2 children [3:44] The importance of talking about having children from the beginning of the relationship [5:50] João started talking about having children and I said I didn't want to [6:29] Until that started to change [7:38] The reasons I had for not wanting to have children [11:00] Due to difficult situations in my childhood, I didn't want to have children so that they wouldn't go through the same things [11:42] Living with friends' children changed my feelings [12:19] My body and not just my mind started wanting to have a child [14:31] What was it like for João when I arrived and said "Ok, let's have children now" [15:37] We decided it was time to start trying and within 2 months the positive result came [17:00] We already knew we would have at least 2 children [17:33] How was it about the second child? [26:55] The Birth of Thomas [27:50] Are you going to stop at the second child? Having LIFE UNDER CONTROL means having the freedom to make dreams come true, recognizing that you are responsible for your life and knowing that what happened in your past does not define your future. Podcast: https://anchor.fm/vidasobcontrole Vanessa:   / vanessalino_   John:   / joaogzanella   #podcast #lifeundercontrol #vanessalino #motherhood #idon'twanttohaveachild #motherhoodprocess #realmotherhood