Comment se défendre en justice face à un pervers Narcissique ? ( vu par une avocate)

Find us on all PACISLEXIS Family Law social networks! Website: https://www.pacislexisfamilylaw.com/ Facebook:   / 2010504739258577   Instagram:   / teampacislexis   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@heloisekawais... YouTube: @pacislexis To begin with, the PN can be either a man or a woman, and the same goes for the victim. Here is an outline of the different elements we will cover during this podcast. I – The PN's Defense Strategy in Court II – The PN's Behavior at the Hearing III – The Legal Strategy to Adopt When Facing a PN I – The PN's Defense Strategy in Court Successive requests for adjournments to slow down the progress of the case as much as possible Late or even last-minute disclosure of documents/pleadings a few days before the hearing or on the day of the hearing Concealment of income Failure to disclose documents to the opposing party Refusal to have joint assets appraised Organizing their insolvency: liquidation of their companies, use of nominees, etc. Resignation, unemployment, failure to disclose their return to work Organized reduction of their income with their employer or even concealment: creation of foreign accounts, etc. Gathering written statements from family, friends, colleagues, and psychologists, stating that they are a very good father/mother, that they are there for their children, etc. Making false statements, for example, stating that they let you have your belongings back Preparing false documents: fake emails, fake invoices, fake acknowledgements of debt, etc. Family, friends, psychotherapists... many of them don't see the manipulation. And as I often tell you on this channel, understand them. It took you years to unmask the NP, how do you expect family, loved ones, and psychologists who don't live with them to notice? II – The NP's Behavior at the Hearing Just before the hearing, you will probably receive documents at the last minute. They will try to destabilize you just before the hearing. Most of the time, he won't come to greet you when he sees you in the courtroom. He'll stay away and adopt a polished appearance. During the hearing. Three possible attitudes: 1- Total hypocrisy: the executioner's satisfaction at being at your side. Social ease. This is the most common situation in 70% of cases. He'll pretend to be a victim, crying, having difficulty expressing himself... But you'll see how everything is false, how exaggerated it all is. The problem is that the magistrate generally won't see anything. 2 - Rage Quite rare: about 15% of cases If you manage to prove his lies, manipulations... That's the Holy Grail. The PN hates being unmasked, hates having his false self exposed. He may lose his composure; his speech is incoherent. You've won this one, and the court decision will likely be in your favor. If necessary, think of a way to destabilize him during the hearing. 3- Radio Silence Quite rare: in about 15% of cases, he doesn't show up for the hearing; he disappears completely. After the hearing, several possible actions are possible: 1- Enforcement of the decision: 80/90% of cases It's very important for them to be well-regarded. So, most of the time, they enforce the decision. This then allows them to position themselves as victims towards the children in several ways: You see, Dad/Mom contests/doesn't enforce the decision. She/He wants to deprive me of seeing you. 2- Non-enforcement of the decision: very, very rare. The PN does not spontaneously enforce the decision when they are unmasked by the court. And then, what they do is disappear. You will no longer have access to their address, and if you need to enforce the decision, you may need to hire a detective to find out their address, employer, income, etc. III – The legal strategy to adopt when dealing with a PN Be supported by the right lawyer to avoid legal errors. A lawyer who doesn't understand psychological violence won't be able to help you, and they won't even notice. They'll think you're crazy and ask you to be pragmatic. They won't empathize with you, and the lawyer will even feel overwhelmed by what you explain. Rely on evidence Refrain from statements you can't substantiate: don't talk about violence if you don't have proof, for example. Explain and share the situation with your friends/lawyers/psychologist/coach Know how to respond to harassment and constant aggression, even after the breakup Indifference, short answer Try to remain calm and be pragmatic.