The Rubber Band Theory

Have you ever met a great guy and had him pull away from you leaving you feeling confused? How could the guy who liked you so much have changed? It leaves you feeling insecure and even a bit needy. Your automatic response is to move closer to him to fill the gap between you. You want to find out what is going on with him. You want to find out what has changed and you want reassurance. The problem is when you do this, he pulls back even more. You are left confused! What happened, everything was going so well. Which in turn causes you to chase after him even more. This video explains why men do this and how you can respond.