Il problema chiamato locus of control
It's not the type of men they choose. It's not bad luck. It's a specific psychological structure... the external locus of control, introduced by Julian Rotter in the 1950s and confirmed by decades of research. Those who have their self-worth outside themselves enter every relationship already at a disadvantage... they need to be chosen to feel good enough, interpret every signal as a verdict on themselves, and attract precisely those who exploit that need. Sandra Murray, one of the most cited researchers on relational self-esteem, documents this connection in detail. In this video, we analyze the complete loop, why it occurs, and above all what it actually means to shift that thermometer from outside to inside. Without motivational fluff. With a solid scientific basis. Have you ever recognized yourself in this... looking for confirmation of your worth in his reactions? Let us know in the comments. #marcodiso #men #women #locusofcontrol #valuethermometer #self-esteem #relationalpsychology ———————————————————— Read my books on relationships: ▸ “100 ACTIONS TO LOVE YOURSELF” ▶️ https://amzn.eu/d/2orIHtp ▸ “MEN” ▶️ https://amzn.eu/d/3SSuS8K ▸ “LOVE THAT LIES” ▶️ https://amzn.eu/d/0StkVB3 ———————————————————— Do you have a difficult relationship or want a male psychological perspective? Message me ✍️: / marcodiso.official ——————————————————— CONTACTS: ▸ info ▶️ [email protected] ▸ management ▶️ [email protected] ▸ events ▶️ [email protected]

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