Regretting Polyamory, Age Gap Dating and Don’t-Ask-Don’t-Tell

Ask your question next time:   / chillpolyamory   Main Channel:    / @chillpolyamory   IG @chillpolyamory -   / chillpolyamory   TikTok @chillpolyamory -   / chillpolyamory   00:00 Intro 01:22 “You made me be polyamorous” 05:19 Is needing monogamy also an ultimatum? 07:28 “My other partner says you can’t visit” 11:58 Gender-based rules and Don’t Ask Don’t Tell 16:44 “My partner is sick, and I hate her husband” 20:49 Solo-polyamorous but U-Hauling 27:55 Polycule Cohabitation 32:00 Changing your structure for someone 37:59 Explaining to monogamous people 43:32 Mid-life dating, what’s different? 49:00 Small age gap dating 54:34 Big age gap dating If you're new here, I'm Genevieve and I'm polyamorous with 14 years of experience. This is the channel where my podcast and patreon chats get posted. Patrons also get exclusive long-form videos, toolkits, and personal stories about polyamory in practice. The catalogue has hundreds of resources, with something new every week. I'm not a therapist or formal educator, but since many therapists are not equipped to discuss non-monogamy from a lived experience perspective, I am happy to support people to the best of my ability.