我们的优秀和热情,不是被累死的,是被“理所当然”磨死的

Please subscribe to this channel:    / @阴阳老王   Our excellence and passion aren't killed by overwork, but by the "taken-for-granted" attitude. Have you ever experienced this in the workplace or at home: The first time you do something well, everyone applauds you; but after you do it a thousand times in a row, everyone takes it for granted. One mistake, and you're met with a barrage of complaints and blame. In this video, Lao Wang wants to share his experiences—my dad cooking, moving a soccer ball at an advertising company, and being blamed for playing with a broken leg—to discuss a painful truth about human nature: all excellence, effort, and talent are often not diminished by time, but are often killed by the "taken-for-granted" attitudes of those around us. When the positive feedback in life and work gradually disappears, all that's left is a habitual acceptance of criticism. Where does our passion go? At the same time, Lao Wang would like to honestly share his real journey and earnings over the past two months of making YouTube videos (triple in the second month! Although the numbers are just for laughs, the gains are far more precious than money). In this place full of real people, every interaction between new and old videos allows my past efforts to be seen and remembered again. Thank you to every friend for your attention, understanding, and honest feedback. It is you who have allowed me to feel the most precious "sense of being alive" and self-worth during this ordinary life of mid-life unemployment and chaos. 📌 Video Highlights (Timeline): [00:00] My Dad's Cooking Story: From "Changing the Style" to "Never Cooking Again" [04:44] The Truth of Workplace and Life: The Moment Excellence is Killed by "Taking It for granted" [05:45] Past Events at the Advertising Company: "Little Northeast" Who Carried Hundreds of Footballs by Himself [09:46] Filming Despite a Fractured Bone, Only to Receive Complaints? [12:29] My Real Earnings and Unexpected Gains from Two Months of YouTube [15:26] Why It's Hard to Have Your Efforts Remembered Long-Term in Reality [18:25] Rejecting Internal Friction, Embracing Self-Pleasure, Thank You All for the "Sense of Being Alive" You've Gave Me Wishing you all happiness, prosperity, and a wonderful day! Welcome to share in the comments: Have you ever experienced the frustration of having your efforts taken for granted? Workplace friction, taking for granted, positive feedback, psychology, emotional resonance, Yin-Yang Master, the truth of life, mid-life crisis, workplace grievances, effort and reward, human weaknesses, YouTube main revenue, self-media journey, self-worth, rejecting internal friction, interpersonal relationships, family life, unemployment rant, emotional value, sense of being alive, growth insights, life's mess, real sharing, pleasing oneself, psychological healing

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