Why You Actually Don't Want Real Love (even though you think you do)

Most people don't actually want love... Why? Because they associate love with pain... and so instead of moving towards, and learning how to build the skills to get really great at love, they come up with subconscious strategies to avoid it, run from it, sabotage it, or create fights and drama to keep it at a certain level. Most people don't actually know what love is because they've never actually created it. I know this, because I was a master of avoiding love... I was a master of dancing in the language that made it appear like I was "available" or "trying". Watch this to understand why you do what you do and how to do it differently.