Você não deve nada aos seus pais

Have you ever heard your parents say, "When I get old, you'll take care of me"? Most likely, yes. But are your parents worthy of receiving care? Why, when we are born, does society automatically place us in this eternal debt to our parents? The fact that you are here today wasn't your choice—it was your parents' choice. Even if that choice was accidental, unplanned, it was still a choice. Years go by, and they place a great responsibility on you: taking care of them in their old age, paying the bills, solving everything for them. If your relationship with your parents is good, if you feel you want to do this for them, there's no problem at all. The trouble, however, begins when that family is dysfunctional, toxic, and abusive. They didn't treat you with love and affection, they never believed in your dreams, but they want all your achievements. You owe your parents nothing. You don't have a debt to them, and you're not obligated to anything. But your life and your future depend on you freeing yourself from that thought. #personaldevelopment #family #psychology #philosophy #relationships #adultlife #life #reallife