Live Lessons in Levity and Leadership: Me2We 2025 Part 1
Sometimes your problems are so big that just one expert opinion doesn’t cut it. Episode 194 of Think Fast, Talk Smart shares advice from not one, not two, but FOUR experts as part of our annual panel discussion at Stanford GSB’s Me2We event. This episode is part 1 of a 2-part series called “Me2We” and features a panel comprising Allison Kluger, Nir Halevy, Christian Wheeler and Naomi Bagdonas in a discussion moderated by our very own, Matt Abrahams. In this episode, the panel discusses: • Allison Kluger’s research on your reputation being your currency. • Nir Halevy’s advice on making athletic teams—and by extension all our organisations—more pluralistic environments. • Christian Wheeler’s advice on spontaneous management and on being comfortable with being uncomfortable. • Naomi Bagdonas’s advice on leadership, and details of her Serendipity Fund. • The role of AI in education, communication, and our daily lives. Don’t forget to check out part 2, in which these four Think Fast, Talk Smart veterans share their wonderful insights on questions asked by the audience! Key Quotes • “Reputation is the echo that precedes you into the room.” –Matt Abrahams, quoting Allison Kluger (03:58) • “Many of us, as adults, avoid situations where we’re going to fail. We forget that failure experiences are something that happen on the way to achievement. In other words, we learn to look good by first looking bad.” –Christian Wheeler (07:32) Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:36 Allison Kluger and Reputation 04:14 Nir Halevy and Pluralism 06:14 Christian Wheeler and Graceful Failure 10:39 Naomi Bagdonas and her Serendipity Fund 13:20 Christian Wheeler on Artificial Intelligence 15:00 Naomi Bagdonas on Artificial Intelligence 17:00 Nir Halevy on Artificial Intelligence 18:29 Allison Kluger on Artificial Intelligence 20:34 Nir’s Broken Hierarchies 22:46 Naomi and the Power of Humor 25:19 Allison’s Executive Presence 28:14 Christian’s Statements 29:49 Conclusions & Credits Relevant Links: Allison Kluger: https://www.fastersmarter.io/guests/a... Allison’s Book, Brand Up 2.0: Propel Your Early Career Success: https://fastersmarter.io/brandup Nir Halevy: https://www.fastersmarter.io/guests/n... Christian Wheeler: https://www.fastersmarter.io/guests/c... Naomi Bagdonas: https://www.fastersmarter.io/guests/n... Naomi’s book, Humor, Seriously: Why Humor Is A Secret Weapon In Business And Life: http://fastersmarter.io/humorseriously Episode References: 2. Communicating Our Multiple Selves: How to Effectively Manage Your Reputation Website: https://www.fastersmarter.io/2-commun... YouTube: • Build a Solid Reputation For Yourself With... 13. Make ’Em Laugh: How to Use Humor as a Secret Weapon in Your Communication Website: https://www.fastersmarter.io/13-make-... YouTube: • Serious Business Can Be Funny Business: Th... 30. Dissolve Disagreements: How Communication Impacts Conflict Website: https://www.fastersmarter.io/30-disso... YouTube: • The ONLY 3 Ingredients You Need To DISSOLV... 18. Managing in the Moment: How to Get Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable Website: https://www.fastersmarter.io/18-manag... YouTube: • You May Have Failed, But You’re Not a Fail... Connect with us: Premium Signup: https://www.fastersmarter.io/premium/ Email Questions & Feedback: [email protected] LinkedIn: ( / think-fast-talk-smart ) Instagram ( / thinkfasttalksmart ) YouTube ( / @thinkfasttalksmart ) Matt Abrahams on LinkedIn ( / maabrahams )

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