You Don't Actually Need Their Validation - You're Just Addicted To It

Today, we dive deep into the emotional challenges of validation addiction & the fear of rejection that often lead us into people pleasing behaviors. Seeking validation can attract energy vampires that steal our light & leave us feeling lost, drained & questioning our own path, among many other things. Through sharing my own story with addiction to external validation, I'm hoping I can provide practical strategies to build self-trust, set boundaries, and embrace authenticity as you build your self-worth enough to live FREE & expressive. 🪷 🔗 Links Mentioned: Moon Sign Playlist:    • Moon Signs in Astrology: What You NEED to ...   Venus Sign Playlist:    • Venus Signs in Astrology   4th House (Imum Coeli) Video:    • IMUM COELI & The 4TH HOUSE in Astrology🌓 W...   7th House (Descendant Sign) Video:    • DESCENDANT SIGN Meaning in Astrology: 7th ...   Decode Your Saturn Sign:    • Decode your SATURN | Saturn in Every Sign ...   🪐 Book a 1-on-1 Meeting with me or download my FREE Astrology Cheat Sheet: https://stan.store/MarisaLaBlue 🪷 Get your own Dreamer gear here: https://www.marisalablue.com/store 🎙️My Podcast: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3TwmgzU... Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 00:00 Validation 01:26 The Dark Side of Validation: My Story 11:02 Why you're addicted 13:39 Astrology Placements to look for 17:09 Performing & facing yourself 20:52 Evidence for self-trust 23:30 Accepting "rejection" 🛍️My Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/marisalablue 🌷Join the LaBlue Lotus Community:   / labluelotuses   📲Follow me: Instagram:   / marisalablue   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marisalablue?... ▶ Music: Waking Dreams - Moments:    • Video   I Don't See the Branches, I See the Leaves by Chris Zabriskie is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/... http://chriszabriskie.com/dtv/Artist: http://chriszabriskie.com/ Business inquiries: [email protected] tags: validation addiction, external validation, external validation psychology, addiction to validation, validation seeking behavior, validation in relationships, male validation, romantic validation, academic validation, validation, how to stop needing validation, how to stop needing attention, stop caring what people think, stop caring what others think, how to stop seeking validation, how to stop seeking approval, how to overcome insecurities, female self development, female self improvement, how to glow up, how to be yourself, stop caring about other people's opinions, how to stop caring about other people's opinions, self empowerment, self growth, self growth journey, energy vampires, narcissists, toxic relationships, marisa lablue

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