EP 384 | How to Say Less and Get More in High-Stakes Conversations | Fotini Iconomopoulos

Grab a copy of Fotini's bestselling book Say Less, Get More here: https://www.harpercollins.com/product... Take Fotini's Negotiation Comfort Zone Quiz: https://fotiniicon.com/quiz/ Visit our website for more empowering content: https://linktr.ee/nkechinwaforrobinson Have you ever found yourself in a high-stakes meeting or a heated personal disagreement, feeling the sudden, overwhelming urge to just keep talking? In this episode of Empowered in My Skin, we sit down with world-class negotiation expert Fotini Iconomopoulos to break down the psychological strategies you need to speak with precision, build deep empathy, and step into your authority. In this interview, we discuss advanced communication skills, executive negotiation strategies, and how to set professional boundaries without burning out. ⏱️ Video Chapters: 00:00 – Episode Teaser: The mental pause button 01:05 – Welcome Fotini Iconomopoulos 03:10 – The origin behind Say Less, Get More 07:45 – How to train your brain out of reactionary responses 12:15 – Dealing with a heated room & physical anchors 16:40 – The hidden danger of avoiding friction 22:00 – Navigating boundaries as an overachiever 26:50 – Why blood relatives trigger us most 31:15 – The pillow test: Living without regrets 35:10 – Why AI hasn't solved human communication 41:00 – Debunking empathy: Acknowledgment vs. Agreement 47:30 – How to handle people avoiding conversations 53:15 – Shifting the finish line: Advancing vs. Closing 💬 Memorable Quotes: "The second you stop steamrolling over yourself in these high-stakes scenarios, in these friction moments... that's your moment to pause." – Fotini Iconomopoulos "Empathy does not mean agreement. Empathy is acknowledgment." – Fotini Iconomopoulos "Our emotions rule so much more than our logic do. We're human; we're not rational creatures built on spreadsheets." – Fotini Iconomopoulos 🔗 Connect with Fotini online: Instagram:   / fotiniicon   LinkedIn:   / fotiniiconomopoulos   Website: https://fotiniicon.com/ If you enjoyed this video, please give it a thumbs up, leave a comment with your favorite takeaway, and subscribe for more executive coaching, emotional intelligence, and self-empowerment frameworks.

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