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#socialskills #assertiveness For the person who leaves conversations thinking, “why didn’t I just say it?”... Join the waitlist for the course that will help you express what’s really there instead of hesitating, shrinking, or playing it safe: https://newelofknowledge.eo.page/soci... ---- Each week, I share ideas and tools to 13,000+ readers that help you improve your mental health & social skills (join here for free): https://www.newelofknowledge.com/ your support (a coffee a month) helps keep what I do alive 🥹, ily either way:    / @newelofknowledge   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/newelofknow... X:   / newelofknow   Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1FRO4KM... 0:00 You know how it feels… 1:30 What actually is assertiveness? 5:42 The etymology 7:10 Just see what resonates 7:30 (1) You have the right to judge your own thoughts and emotions and to take the responsibility for their initiation and consequences upon yourself 8:34 (2) You have the right to offer no reasons or excuses for justifying your behaviour 9:23 (3) You have the right to judge if you are responsible for finding solutions to other people’s problems 11:15 (4) You have the right to change your mind 13:51 (5) You have the right to make mistakes - and be responsible for them 15:08 (6) You have the right to say “I don’t know” 16:51 (7) You have the right to be independent of the goodwill of others before coping with them 18:19 (8) You have the right to be illogical in making decisions 19:40 (9) You have the right to say “I don’t understand” 21:43 (10) You have the right to say “I don’t care” 23:41 (11) You have the right to say “no” without feeling guilty 24:17 What to do next 24:47 Course waitlist & outro rizz