They Both Died. I Cannot Believe This Is Now My Life | Becky Livingston | Ep 100

Becky Livingston's world imploded twice. First, her partner Bob was diagnosed with aggressive brain cancer and died six months later. Then, 18 months after that, her daughter Rachel's brain tumour returned. Most people would have stayed on the floor. Becky got up, packed her daughter's ashes, and spent 26 months scattering them across the places Rachel had dreamed of visiting.This is a conversation about the most devastating thing that can happen to a person, and the extraordinary decision to find gold in the wreckage. Becky shares Bob's life lessons how gratitude actually works when you have every reason to be bitter, and why changing your outer view can change your inner one. Her book is called Joyful Mourning, and after you hear this, you'll understand why that title isn't a contradiction. Check out part two :    • The Trip She Took With Her Dead Daughter |...   Guest Page: https://shithappy.com/they-both-died-... Links To Love (newsletter +):++ https://shithappy.com/they-both-died-... For laughs check out our other Youtube @inbedwithphil 0:00 — When Life Hits You With Back-to-Back Tragedy 2:11 — Falling in Love Again as a Single Mum (and Losing Him Too) 6:04 — "To Be Constantly Strong Is a Weakness" — Bob's Wisest Lesson 7:51 — The Day Her Daughter's Brain Tumor Came Back 8:33 — How She Survived Losing a Partner to Brain Cancer 8:32 — Falling Apart After Loss — What Actually Helped Her Heal 10:33 — How to Care for Yourself While Watching Someone Die 13:49 — Remembering Rachel — A Daughter Who Loved to Laugh and Travel 16:02 — The Travel Journey That Started With a Book of Stars 16:44 — Why She Turned Her Grief Into a Book (and Why Only She Could Write It) 19:54 — How Grief and Gratitude Can Coexist 22:37 — How a Terminal Diagnosis Changes the Way You Live 26:57 — Reinventing Your Life After 50 — It's Never Too Late 30:54 — Using Travel to Navigate Life's Biggest Transitions 32:17 — How to Find Yourself Again After Everything Changes 35:19 — Closing — Part Two Coming Thursday #shithappypodcast #grief #loss #resilience #mentalhealth