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#Dating #HowToDate #DatingPsychology #Love #DatingEmpathy A woman whom a man leaves within 3 months, and a woman whom a man cannot leave even after 3 years. Surprisingly, there was only one difference. That “actions taken out of a desire to be loved” are actually the first to wear down love. If you start grading every single thing—frequency of contact, tone of voice, and reaction—like a test paper, the relationship becomes not love, but a relationship of managing anxiety. Conversely, those whose relationships last a long time do not test their partner, but look at the “temperature of our relationship.” ✔️ People who focus on restoring the relationship rather than confirming love ✔️ People who ask, “How do you feel about us lately?” instead of “Why are you acting like this?” ✔️ People who converse in a way that leads to a better life together, rather than acting out of anxiety. Ultimately, people remain in relationships where they can breathe together, rather than in relationships where they are constantly being tested. In today’s video, I explored why trying to verify someone actually pushes them further apart, and what distinguishes long-lasting relationships, from a perspective combining psychology and real-life dating. 👇 When you are dating, Are you more inclined toward seeking ‘confirmation of love’? Or do you tend to build a ‘relationship where we live well together’? 0:00 Take just this ‘one sentence’ with you today 2:08 Common characteristics of people who cut it off in 3 months - Unconsciously become someone who submits test papers 3:42 Why do we keep submitting test papers? 4:46 Common characteristics of people whose relationships last over 3 years - They use love like space 6:52 Situation Comparison 1. When contact starts to decrease 8:42 Situation Comparison 2. When hurt feelings arise 9:38 I am losing love because of actions I take to be loved 10:46 We start drifting apart the moment we try to excessively confirm everything 12:13 Outro Inquiries: [email protected] Instagram: sagange_