Desis and the Double Standard

In this episode, we're unpacking the double standards that run deep in Desi culture, especially when it comes to gender, family expectations, dating, marriage, and the pressure to live a life that pleases everyone but yourself. From the way boys and girls are raised, to the unspoken rules around reputation, sacrifice, and silence. We're naming the things that have long gone unchallenged. It's honest, it’s personal, and it’s probably going to hit close to home. Let’s get into it. 0:00 INTRO 1:42 Respect 13:02 Infertlity 13:38 Remarry 15:07 Speaking up 18:17 Get a degree but also cook 18:53 Marrying outside of culture 21:20 Fat 22:14 DIL’s vs husbands 24:29 Living with inlaws 37:16 Heirarchy of DILs