Man Builds a House Alone | Upstairs Is for Poor People | I Kissed a Pastor | Random Guys EP9

Welcome to Random Guys, where chaos meets culture—and nothing ever goes according to plan. Hosted by Khabane Moloi and Jerry McSpanky on the SABS Network, this is your unfiltered dive into conversations that start somewhere… and end up anywhere. In this episode, The Random Guys reflect on building things brick by brick—whether it's a house, a career, or a podcast. Jerry shares the legendary story of Mr. Thomas, the man who built his father's two-room house almost entirely by himself. Calling himself the project manager, builder, and everything in between, Thomas spent seven months on the project. The twist? He preferred being paid monthly because he wanted to build a credit history and improve his chances of qualifying for a loan. Since The Random Guys were rocking construction helmets during the episode, the conversation naturally expands into what it really means to build something from the ground up and why patience matters. Things then take a sharp turn into village life, where Khabane tells the story of the greatest long-drop toilet experience of his life 😭 The Random Guys also debate whether men should greet each other with a simple "hi," and how different social rules exist depending on where you grew up. From the Random Thoughts segment, one listener opens up about battling insomnia and the frustration of not being able to switch off and rest. Another anonymous submission leaves everyone speechless when a listener reveals that he has been sleeping with his pastor, while the pastor's wife believes the pastor is helping him through prayer and spiritual guidance. The conversation wraps up with a discussion about symbols of wealth, changing ideas of status, apartheid-era interior design influences, and why having an upstairs section in a house once meant success in the village—while modern city living often places the highest value on ground-floor space. No structure. No rules. Just real conversations, random tangents, and everything in between. If you like your conversations loose, your laughs loud, and your topics everywhere—you’re in the right place. We in the world 🌍 💬 Drop your thoughts in the comments 🔔 Like, share & subscribe — let’s grow together 🎙️ --- 🎙️ Meet The Team 🧑🏽 Host: Jerry McSpanky 🧑🏽 Host: Khabane Moloi 🎛️ Producer: Tsitsi Chiumya 📸 Captured By: Kaago Mokale 🔊 Sound: Shane Kgotatso ✂️🎞️ Post Production: Kaago Mokale