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We will re-release the video of the Early Buddhism Q&A by Elder Sumanasara with subtitles. Extracted from the Early Buddhism Q&A by Elder Arabomulle Sumanasara @ Gautami Vihara on Thursday, August 12, 2021. Japanese subtitles: Hiromi Yabushita @ Subtitle Production Team Thumbnail image: Hiromi Tomita @ Thumbnail Production Team Q: My husband works with his dictatorial father and other relatives, and he says that he feels very stressed. He has had a habit of drinking heavily since he was a student, and even now he usually comes home drunk, makes loud noises, sleeps at the entrance, etc., which is very troublesome. And the next day he usually apologizes profusely, but he never shows any remorse and continues to do so. He hardly listens to my requests for arrangements between us or rules for housework. Even when I ask him what he wants from me, and is there anything I can do to improve? I don't really understand it myself. So, is there any way for the person to stop heavy drinking or improve their relationship with their family? Reference: Misunderstanding Addiction | Ministry of Health, Labor and Welfare Special Website https://www.mhlw.go.jp/izonshou/tokus... "Addiction is a 'disease' in which the brain's functions to control alcohol, drug use, gambling, etc. are weakened as a result of repeated use of alcohol or drugs. People do not become addicted because they have a weak will." [Event Information] Early Buddhist Lecture "How to Draw a Blueprint for Your Life - Decide Your Own Life" Lecturer: Venerable Arabomulle Sumanasara Date and Time: Saturday, December 9, 2023, 14:00-16:30 Venue: Nippori Sunny Hall (Arakawa-ku, Tokyo) ☆Please apply in advance using the application form below to participate. https://www.kokuchpro.com/event/20231... ■Profile of Elder Sumanasara Elder Alubomulle Sumanasara Thero Elder of Theravada Buddhism (Theravada Buddhism). Born in Sri Lanka in April 1945. Became a monk at the age of 13. Teach Buddhist philosophy at the National University of Kelaniya. Came to Japan as a government-sponsored student in 1980. After completing his doctoral studies at Komazawa University Graduate School, he is currently engaged in Buddhist evangelism and meditation instruction at the Japan Theravada Buddhist Association. He has also appeared on NHK Educational TV's "The Age of the Heart" and is a lecturer at the Asahi Culture Center. He has written many books, including "Buddha's Theory of Happiness," "How to View Impermanence," "Not Getting Angry" (Japanese), and "Freedom from Anger" (English). ■Japan Theravada Buddhist Association "Membership Information" Would you like to become a supporter of the Buddha's teachings? https://j-theravada.com/support/join/ ■Association donation window (Yucho Direct can also be used) https://j-theravada.com/support/join/... ■Japan Theravada Buddhist Association Twitter   / jtba_info   ■Venerable Sumanasara's Buddhist Sermons Twitter   / jtba_talk   ■Bookstore to nurture the mind We sell books by Venerable Sumanasara published by Sangha Publishing, which has ceased business. All books are new, but please forgive us if they are sold out as they are only available while supplies last. https://jtba.theshop.jp/ ■STORES.JP Early Buddhist Sermons to Nurture the Mind We sell downloadable content related to Theravada Buddhism (early Buddhism, Theravada Buddhism), including data on Venerable Sumanasara's sermons. https://j-theravada.stores.jp/ ~May all living beings be happy~