Why So Many Men Can't Stop People Pleasing

This is a segment from my conversation with Frederik Herre. He is a German men's coach and facilitator based in Bali, Indonesia, formerly Berlin, who specialises in helping men overcome people-pleasing and nice-guy patterns. After spending his twenties isolated, conflict-avoidant, and single for nine years, he discovered the concept of people pleasing through a friend's observation and began a two-year personal transformation. He now runs men's circles under the name Men's Embodiment Group, coaches clients one-on-one, and delivered a live talk titled Boys Deserve Love 2 on the psychology of masculine self-worth. This episode is the first in-person recording of Julius Moorman's podcast, taped in Bali.