Me Nace Decirlo | Cap 11 Odio la Maternidad

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by motherhood but were afraid to say it out loud for fear of judgment? 😔 In this episode of @MeNaceDecirlo, we open up completely and drop the masks to talk about a major taboo: extreme exhaustion, loss of identity, and those dark moments when you feel like you "hate" motherhood. We speak candidly about our realities: from facing high-risk pregnancies at a very young age (19 and 21), the heavy burden of family rejection and the fear of judgment in the community, to traumatic 18-hour labors and the shattered expectations of the professional plans and careers we had to put on hold (like architecture, teaching, or an exchange program). We also analyze how loneliness and the lack of real support networks transform the experience of being a mother, using impactful real-life stories as a starting point. If you've ever felt tired, guilty, or overstimulated, this space is for you. Remember: You're not alone in this, and it's okay to talk about the painful parts! 🤍 Tell us in the comments: What has been the most difficult moment of your motherhood journey? We're reading! ✨ Don't forget to subscribe, like the video, and turn on notifications so you don't miss any episodes. #RealMotherhood #IHaveToSpeakUp #TabooMotherhood #PodcastColombia #PostpartumDepression #RespectfulParenting #BirthStories #YoungMotherhood 00:00 - The most difficult moment 00:31 - Welcome to I Have To Speak Up: The taboo of motherhood 01:21 - Life stories: Loneliness and lack of support as a mother 05:01 - What makes us mature? The transition to adulthood 06:03 - Who were we before becoming mothers? Our Plans and Dreams 12:04 - The 1% Pregnancy: When Life Changes Completely 17:07 - Expectations vs. Reality: Did We Have Maternal Instinct? 20:52 - The Early Childhood Education Professional's Clash with Her Own Children 24:12 - The Context of Our Pregnancies: The Fear of Family Rejection 32:10 - Medical Complications, Lower Back Pain, and Tension at Home 34:07 - The Rawest Account: 18 Hours of Labor and Emergency C-Sections 43:40 - The Day My Water Broke and the True Pain 50:32 - The First Week at Home and the Two-Year Crisis 52:47 - The Weight of Social Standards and Sharing the News with Your Community 55:07 - The American Dream on Hold: Between Hormones and Relationship Crises 01:00:00 - Final Reflections: Healing Our Childhood to Raise Our Children